I have a boyfriend, dating for almost 4 years know. Every time he drinks or gets mad at me he always tells me about my 3 kids and starts to say i am just a ***** becouse i had kids from a previose marriage and lots more. And well start to tell me about why i can not have a baby for him. i tied my tubes, we have already talked about me getting the operation so i can have kids but he always starts to say things to me about why i can not get pregnet now. about a year ago he had the money so i can have the operation, when we went for the cdonsultation he had said it was to much money and that he would not have enough. come to find out just recently that he had more than enough money, he lent the money out to his brother for some land he just baught. what should i do?
2007-02-11 14:23:21 · 8 answers · asked by clermontadt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you can't trust the guy. TRUST me when I say if you can't trust him now, it won't get better when you are married. I think that you two need to see a counselor or you should just leave him and find someone you can trust.
2007-02-11 14:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by boomer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and never look back you have to take care of your kids first and for most.
You don't need a man under you right now your a mother, so until those kids are off in college that's where you focus should be.
Good luck don't let a man talk down to you keep smiling :-)
2007-02-11 22:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. Are you sure if you had all the money in the world you would want to have a child with someone that could talk to you like that?
2007-02-11 22:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Charlotte Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i would ditch the guy...you are seeing what he really thinks of you when he is drunk... you don't need to be put down like that and nither do your kids...plus he is lieing to you... does this sound like it could be the solid base to a good relationship? Be confident and strong...especially for your kids!
2007-02-11 22:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! You don't need that kind of jerk hanging around!
Sounds like this happens often, do you really want to be with someone who gets drunk frequently??
Just pack your bags and get out.
2007-02-11 22:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have enough kids get over it.
2007-02-11 22:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by LuckyChucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm he sounds like a hick.
2007-02-11 22:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by twistedloves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2007-02-11 22:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by infinitenothing_com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋