Why should we straight men be forced to accept transwomen as real women?

Question

This is a legitamite question and if more men are going to accept transwomen as real women I really believe it has to be addressed.
1) First off there is the whole issue of honesty. Omission is the same as lying. Most men don't appreciate being lied to. Plus two wrongs do not make a right. It makes allot of guys angry that transwomen are not honest about their trans status.
2) Transwomen were born into male bodies (exceptions are those with XXY, or YYX etc) I fully understand transwomen have female souls, brains and hearts. I want a women with a female soul, brain, heart and that was born into a female body. This is just my personal choice, it's what I feel comfortable with. Please don't force me to be with a transwomen through dishonesty.
3) Most Genetic women can become pregnant (exception, infertile, old, chose not to). There is not one single transwomen (XY only) who can become pregnant.
These are real concerns most straight men have. Why do you think transwomen are real women?

Answer 1

you must really be mad about your blind date last night.

Answer 2

You aren't "forced" to do anything unless someone's holding a weapon to your head. Honesty is an issue that a transitioning person should hold to, however I can also see their pov when researching the issue myself, in that they are so terribly treated by people and so desperate for love that some people do resort to some dishonest, desperate measures... but then that's NO excuse for someone to treat them as horrifyingly as they're often treated based on some illogical "ick" factor, or plain ignorance and cruelty.

In their own mind these people are real women or men stuck in the wrong bodies and they are just like you or me... they also want love and to be happy. Who are we to deny them happiness based on prejudices, some of which (not necessarily those posed here) are illogical?

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Answer 3

It seems like the most essential thing for you is a woman's body, does that not sound shallow to you?
I can understand that if you are looking for a long term relationship, the trans woman should tell you that she cannot have children, but I think it should be her decision to tell you if she used to have a pee-pee.
If you had something shameful in your past, would you want to bring it into a relationship? Don't these women deserve a fresh start? Why should they have to trudge up their painful past with every guy they meet?

Answer 4

First, who is forcing you? Second, why is this in the religion and spirituality section? And third, to answer your question, I'd say we should not be forced to accept them as wives, just as fellow human beings.

Answer 5

If I fall in love with a woman, then it really won't matter to me. I'm not that shallow and don't want kids. If you're just having casual sex with one, I doubt you'd notice anyway

Answer 6

I am fine with people being transsexual. But if you know what it is like to pee standing up and have a prostate we will not be having drinks any time.

Answer 7

Um...not sure what you're asking here. Yes, I'd say it's wrong to hide that info...but you have to expect that people might be hiding secrets from you. That's life.

Answer 8

I totally agree with you. Not being truthful about something like that is a form of rape, because of the lack of informed consent.

Answer 9

Is it bad that I just laughed uncontrollably and splattered raspberry sherbet on the computer monitor?

Answer 10

Wow.