I have an awesome boyfriend... treats me good.....hes respectful... takes care of me... supports me financially... emotionally....etc... you get the point. Anyways.... I just feel like I take him for granted... im so comfortable with him... yet one of these days.. he just might not be here..... i want to change this behaviour of mine...any ideas??
2007-02-11 13:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him?
Get him something?
Hug him?
Kiss him for no reason?
Be there for him?
Surprise him?
Ask him for what he wants?
Do those little things he'll always remember.
2007-02-11 13:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really good question. Right now, thinking about how much he does for you, and thinking that one day he might not be there, it seems like you are not taking him for granted. Just let him know how much you care for him and how much he means to you.
I think this feeling is inherit to human nature. Everyone wants what they don't have, and once they have something it is never as good as what you thought it would be like...or once you have it you forget about what it was to be without.
2007-02-11 21:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a very similar feeling the other day.
I was worried about my mom and how I would be so sad if she was gone because I would miss all the little things like her smell the way we can talk and everything else. I dont really know how to not feel that. It could take something life changeing to make you realize what you have. Like they say, you don't know what you got 'till it's gone.
2007-02-11 21:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kylie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be no ideas what's so hard about being a good girlfriend do for him like he does for you.Tell him you care about him,love him,and that he means so much to you.Cooking for him,washing his clothes,just chilling with him,no arguments will help.That cannot be hard.Good luck,a good man is hard to find.
2007-02-11 21:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by TH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings every single day. Remind yourself how lucky you are.
Do this in the am or the pm before going to sleep. Rejoice in the good things in your life. : )
2007-02-11 21:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl do this because do this 2 hurt others fillings but i personally think that it is wrong 2 do but u just might have 2 let that person go 2 teach him/her a leason!!!
2007-02-11 21:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do things for him like he does for you.....that way you wont feel like your taking him for granted and he wont feel that way either and it always feels good to take your man out to dinner and a movie for a change
2007-02-11 21:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how much you appreciate him more often :).
its good you want to change taking him for granted. so just thank him :). tell him how much he means to you, why and what you are thankful for.
just because your comfortable with him.. doest mean you take him for granted :).
2007-02-11 21:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just think that no matter what happens that person will always be there by ur side no matter what even with the knowledge that people die everyday
2007-02-11 21:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by lalgita12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that do it on purpose, but if you know you are doing it. then change what you think you are doing. and talk to him and tell him how you feel about him. good luck.
2007-02-11 21:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋