My girl hates it when i cant see her. I hate it too but for some reason she thinks that I dont. I work hard and long and sometimes she gets mad when i dont see her that day.I hate it when we fight. I would much rather have fun than not. what do i do
2007-02-11 13:38:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it, that hardworking guys never receive understanding from their significant others?? Maybe the problem isn't you.......
2007-02-13 07:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not appreciate you. You could be a lazy bum, just lay around the house all day and make up excuses of why you can not go look for a job. I think she is jealous, self centered, does not want you go pay any attention to anything or any one but her. My brother married a girl like that, and it got worse.He finally divorced her. She thinks she owns you now, this is nothing. A real lady respects the fact that the man is working hard and long hours, and he is REALLY tired. He needs some rest and peace and quite. It is easy to belly-ache about not seeing you, she probably had heck of a lot more sleep than you have had, so she feel ready to go. I see no reason for you to have to explain to her or anyone else, that you work hard and long hours and need some rest. If you can go see her do it, if you can not , do not feel bad about it. If she does not respect you enough to understand that, than she is not mature at all. Get your rest and get their when you can, if she gets mad and wants to fight, leave and do not go back, it is not worth it to be in a relationship like this. It will just keep getting worse every time you give in. Plenty of girls out there would love to catch a guy like you. They would have your clothes out, bath ready, rub your feet, scratch your back, home cook meals and treat you like a king. You deserve it.
2007-02-11 22:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would she be willing to settle for a phone call from you on the days you can't see her? Have you explained to her about your job, the hours, etc.? You probably have. I don't know how old you are, or how old she is. Some gals can be clingy, or self-centered, or just not understand or care, or not trusting of the guy. I know I didn't like not getting to see my boyfriend every day-but, his job, time for sleep, etc., was priority-as it should and needs to be. Have you explained to her that if you don't get to go to work, and work the hours you are needed to, and sleep as you need to, that- that would mean less maney-therefore, not enough to spend any on her? Or for the two of you to have any fun together? I definitely see where you are coming from. Work and rest are important in life. Recreation too. Do you even have time to spend once in awhile hanging out with the guys-going bowling or something fun? Take care.
2007-02-11 21:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shes should be more understanding about your job! Me and my husband work different shifts and dont see each other at all during the week. This makes our time together more special and keeps our relationship more exciting, catching up etc. We have a lot to talk about by the time the weekend rolls around.
2007-02-11 21:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by seven-11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not what you say, it's what you do. Show her you want to be with her by not working so much but taking her out for fancy dinners and fun dates instead. Working hard and long may then take on a different meaning for you.
2007-02-11 21:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
all u can do is explain to her that its not that you dont want it, its that you are TIRED and CANT. its nothing agianst her, but that you need your sleep too. if she cant understand that, and u keep fighting, either break it off or just let her be mad.
2007-02-11 21:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try doin somethin very special for her on valentines day...but try talkin to her on how u guys cant always see each other for every second of the day....i think its very sick if a couple always see each other for every second. if couples do that, they wont last very long because eventually, they wud get very tired nd bored of each other because of all the 'stayin together for every second'...get som time off....but tis is jus my opinion on tis...
2007-02-11 21:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by mz_poynter010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that sometimes you have to work and dont have time to see her and it hurts you just as much as it hurts her but it dont mean that you dont love her any less.good luck
2007-02-11 21:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_see_123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show her this question you posted. Hopefully it will help her see that it bothers you too. You have a job to do...she also needs to respect that.
2007-02-11 21:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by tutter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to show her you care but you cant see her that day. randomly call her and let her know you were thinking about her and how you can wait to see her. and maybe sent her flowers or something cute like that.
bless your heart.
2007-02-11 21:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋