i am 14 and i have nver had a boyfriend my dad says i could have one in fact he encourages it but nobody likes me could someone help me get a boyfriend maybe?!
2007-02-11 13:35:32 · 15 answers · asked by CBroxmysox 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are 14--what's the rush? Don't be in a hurry to have a boyfriend. You could go in groups of friends. My advice is to be yourself. But, please don't be in a hurry to grow up too soon. It could be a big mistake.
2007-02-18 17:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Garnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 too, and I look for a smart girl that respects herself. I personally don't think make up is good at all so if you wear it, wear a little bit or none at all. Try not to come across as desperate, and become friends with a guy before you try to make a move... I think its just strange when someone you don't even know asks you out... I guess its normal in the real world lol but for us niners... not quite what I want. You just gotta think about who you come across as, and how people view that person. If you wouldn't be friends with yourself no one with like you. So fix it so you like who you are, and that reflects onto other people. Self- confidence is important for a relationship, and try to be trusting with the guys you do become friends with... but don't let your guard down too much... good luck!
2007-02-11 21:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Eric B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the first thing (a lot of, but not all) guy looks for in a girl is a phat azz and big ****. Hey, they are guys...
For those that are mature, they basically want someone who they can hang out with like the boys, but they also want to be able to talk to you about the sensitive things he can't tell his boys. He also needs that shoulder to cry on and that one person to love him and make them feel like God's Perfect Creation. You should have a good personality not always B*****n and complainin and a good sense of humor b/c most guys love to laugh. There are a lot of personality traits that guys go for, just like there are a lot of different guys out there. Whatever you do, dont take on thing that someone names on here to make out of yourself because being fake gets you nowhere. Just be yourself and don't go looking for love. You're only 14 Hun, enjoy your life and when the time is right, you'll know!!!
Good Luck
2007-02-19 19:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by The One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plz take it from me...There is no rush! Just let it happen. If you like a boy thancool talk to him but don't just try to get a boyfriend cuz you never had one. It's work and though it maybe fun at the tme you may get hurt in the end. Always be yourself don't ever let a boy tell you that you have to change and don't try to change him. AND NO SEXXXXXX!!!!
2007-02-11 21:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sasasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably same as what i like in a girl and im 47. look good have a positive attitude. i dont like that ' whatever" attitude. average looks are fine, you dont need to be a model. dont be too chatty either.
having a common interest is a help, such as a school clubs.
dont whine or complain thats a turnoff. dont cuss either.
good luck,dean
2007-02-19 12:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by hdwasp59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1samart
2good personality
3good attitude
4funny
5loves music
6plaful
7fun
8some one how is there for me
9some one how loves me
10her smile.
11her way of talking
12her dressing
13 no kids lol for real no kids
14i have to lover u r cooking
15now she can take control some times
Now its how u look but its not that much
16tall b/w 5.4 6.0
17medium size not fat or skinny
18her beauty
19strong but not were she can kik my ***
20a&t lol sorry about 20
email me lol
2007-02-11 21:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hard question what do guy like it just depends really. what i like is a girl that has no problem telling what she wants, don't take crap off of people but what you should be asking is what kind of guy do you want because most off the time its up to girls to decide. just start looking around for what you like and go for it
2007-02-11 21:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by delano72938us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys look for
looks your..appreinces
like your face body and stuff like that.
and your clothing style
how you smell
i suggest you decorate your self a little bit
like maybe trim your hair
or trying changing your style
but dont change your personailty
be you.
2007-02-11 21:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound a wee bit corny but it's been tru for most of my short life. Here it goes: you don't find love; love finds you.
Hope this helps.
2007-02-11 21:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by YannDumont 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing somthing different with your self. ask friends what would make you look attractive. Try new things and stand out more. goodluck
2007-02-11 21:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋