Sometimes I dream of being preganat. I think about it ALL the time. I work at Target and when I am in the baby section I almost cry. When I see someone with a baby I get all gitty. I want a baby SO bad. Some people think that I am crazy. I am wondering am I really?
2007-02-11 13:31:54 · 11 answers · asked by Brittany D 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I have wanted one since i was 13 and now i am 20 and going to be getting married in a month
2007-02-11 13:45:44 · update #1
Nothing wrong with that, it's a beautiful thing to want. look at all the people whose lives center around achiving fame.
As a mom, I like to be around people like you, that get excited about kids.
2007-02-11 13:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll be thirty this year, and my maternal clock is in overdrive. I have one little boy, but I'd love a houseful of kids. You are definitely not crazy. Women are made to bear children, and the psychological desires come right along with the biological ones. I just bought a baby shower gift today, and it got me tuned up pretty good. It's a perfectly normal thing, and I daresay most women will go through it at some time in their lives.
2007-02-11 13:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are going through is what many many women go through. The urge to have a baby is so strong it will cause you to do desperate things. Let me tell you my story.
I had my first child at age 22. I was married and very happy. Then, when our son was a mere 6 months old, my husband left me for another woman. This was devastating to me to say the least. Being a single mom was so hard! How was I suppose to find another husband and have more children as I had always planned for myself?
Somehow I managed to meet someone through my brother. We were married when I was 28. We tried and tried to get pregnant, but no such luck! Or maybe it was good luck, because I kept catching this man in serious lies. I left him when I was 33 years old, still only the one child was with me, and his father, my first husband gave me hell all the time, threatening to drag me through the courts and break me financially and take our son away from me.
As I approached 36, I met this younger man (he was 28). In many ways he was irratic and had almost no self assurance. So I took advantage of this man knowing he would not ever threaten to take any baby away from me later on. My drive to have more children overrode my sense of fairness and rightness. We continued to date each other during the pregnancy. Then, when our baby was 9 months old, I came up pregnant again. This baby was not in the plans, and it split us apart for good. He wanted me to get an abortion and I would not.
So I have been raising my two boys totally by myself. My parents turned against me for having two babies out of wedlock. Their father has nothing to do with them at all. They don't know any of their relatives on either side. It has hurt them very much not having a more conventional family.
Think before you procreate. What help will you have? If you are in a loving marriage or alternative relationship, then go for it, give in to the urge. It is a natural one. But if things are not in a good place to bring a baby into the picture, then beware of that urge. You could wind up being in a hellish life like me.
2007-02-11 13:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pixie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not crazy! there is nothing wrong with wanting to have a baby!! you will have one when you are ready and have found the right person to have a baby with....don't get all depressed cause it may cause problems as to having a baby....if you are to stressed out!! give it some time you will have one.
good luck
2007-02-11 13:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not crazy. i was the same way for about 15 years. and finally i met the right guy and married him and now i am pregnant and happy. i got really jealous and happy but depressed when my friends had babies but i didn't, it will go away when you have a baby yourself and find happiness.
2007-02-11 13:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple no ur not crazy it just something that we go I feel the same way. And i may be pregnant but i getting neg sign from blood work also urine sample. So my advice too you be patient
2007-02-15 09:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not Crazy!! Your hormones are working overtime. Humans are put on this earth, like most everything, to multiply and women's hormones are very active during child bearing years.
I don't know if their is anything you might do to lessen this, but you might want to talk to your GYN.
2007-02-11 13:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think that is crazy the question is do you think your crazy don't say that cause everybody else does . and it might be a sign that one day you may get pregnant
2007-02-11 13:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by i am a princess at heart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got baby fever!! The only cure is time (unless you just have one).
2007-02-11 13:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's baby fever and if you are trying to get prego and still feel like this you are gonna stress yourself out and won't be able to get prego.
2007-02-11 13:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋