My bf and I have been dating for about 4 months, but have been best friends for about a year. He's helped me through so much and has been my shoulder to cry on, but he keeps doing stupid things like getting grounded for getting drunk at a party, and then getting caught for smoking pot. always not showing regard for my feelings, ignoring me when we are in a group.We barely got to talk because of his punishment, and then when his mom was over it he had to get a job to pay for the hospital bill, so he was too tired to talk.We broke up for like an hour because we had grown apart, but it hurt too bad so we got back together.We decided we would try to work on things, but then he decided to pick up his old habit of compulsive computer game playing.So we barely talk, & in the past week or two when we have, in the background is the computer, but he doesn't seem to want to end things, he just bought tickets for a concert in 2 months, and keeps saying things about the future.So whats going on?
2007-02-11 13:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by LoneliestGirlInTheWorld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are involved with an immature, self-absorbed individual. You need to decide whether or not you enjoy your punishment. If you do, then stick with him, otherwise, abandon ship. And don't think you can get him to change either. That's always a big mistake. He'll only change when he finally wakes up and that's not likely to be for a long time.
2007-02-11 13:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? It sounds like it's kind of already over and neither of you is ready to admit it. The worst part is that the only real option is to get ready to deal with breaking up, which will seem like a really bad way to go, but at least that gets all the pressure and depression out of the way in one good swoop, so you can get over it. Staying together? That just keeps the two of you feeling awful.
I better go, my shift wearing the Grimace suit over at McDonald's starts in ten minutes. Good luck.
2007-02-11 13:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by kidneythief13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people who try to date their friends end up losing the person as a friend. just because he made you feel special as a friend, doesnt mean it will be the same if your dating, smoking drugs and things are something i dont think you want to get into. my suggestion would be to tell him you arent satisfied with what you are getting out of this and tell him your are leaving if he doesnt change.
2007-02-11 13:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by builtff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he needs is a real change, so stop being a perfect girlfriend , eat alot of beans, get him on the bed, sit on his face and fart, fart, fart. Of course you should grind you p u s s y in his face first so he has some fun too. Let us know how it goes.
2007-02-11 13:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Erica S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just a stupid punk kid who's parents obviously spoiled him. And now you're tolerating his crap. This rotten *** kid needs a good ***** slappin' every 15 minutes a day.
2007-02-11 13:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you guys? sounds to me like hes just not ready for a gf... i would just tell him that if he cant clean himself up, its over. there are tons of guys out there! dont settle for one that you find faults in!
2007-02-11 13:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not ready for a relationship, hes young and to immature you need to move on .
2007-02-11 13:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by dan m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you already explained enough about what's going on, don't you think
2007-02-11 13:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋