My boyfriend feels that oral sex is not important in our relationship (which is difficult to believe)!!!!!!! On the other hand, i feel it's necessary. We've been together for a year and been intimate for 3 months. I've done it to him once, however, he hasn't reciprocated and now I feel resentful. We''ve talked, argued, disagreed, etc. and he can't seem to meet me halfway. He feels that he will never perform oral, even in the event of possible marriage. Besides the oral issue, the rest of our relationship is great. I guess that's why this issue is bothering me so much. Good solid advice PLEASE!!!!
2007-02-11 13:27:02 · 2 answers · asked by chi_town_pimpaholic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should a couple break up if a man doesn't want to perform oral on his girlfriend, but feels she should perform on him?
2007-02-11 13:34:46 · update #1
Sex is too important in a relationship...all forms of sex...for me personally, oral sex is very important and I couldn't be in a relationship without it. I guess I applaud you for waiting 9 months before you starting having sex with your boyfriend, that is very rare nowadays...I am now separated and the killer of my marriage was that the sex was bad (there were other issues but that was the main one)...Just be honest with yourself when you say the rest of your relationship is great (because I have been there)...if you enjoy oral sex and he won't do it, I think eventually it's gonna drive you crazy from something you are lacking...For me, I would not want to spend the rest of my life with someone who didn't satisfy me (orally)
2007-02-12 09:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 7⤊ 5⤋
You have got to be clean, then try some of the flavored lotions and stuff. Try it on the back of your hand first. Some aren't very tasty, and some leave a wierd film on you both. The next thing is to tell him to do it. Maybe while doing it 69. OR just on an odd chance, he may be using you.
2007-02-11 22:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋