I am sort of quiet. I don't know what to talk about with the girls. And i want a girl friend real bad. please help me.
2007-02-11 13:15:40 · 14 answers · asked by yo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you got to go out an socialize. While girls love the cool mysterious type...we don't find interest in the silent type. Just create conversation(nothing geeky). Just be calm and act smooth.
2007-02-11 13:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you need to be yourself. You can look for a girlfriend you have to wait for her. Also girls do not like when a guy tries too hard. If she isnt interested back off. Just talktoher, get to know her. Make her feel special. Let her know you care. Youve gotta talk toher, or you wont have a chance, itslike a bet. you either can bet and have a choice ofwinning or losing. Or you can not bet and not know ifyou would have won. Lastly,you can win. So just give it a try
2007-02-11 13:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Deziix33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being quiet or shy. But you have to force yourself out of your comfort zone to make things happen.
This means getting out and taking initiative. Yeah, easier said than done. A good thing is having an outgoing male friend that you can tag along with...if he's cool he'll help out.
2007-02-11 13:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy being yourself. Don't conform to anyone's pressure about what they think you should be. When a gal likes you for you and sees that you're comfortable in your own skin, she'll give you that little extra attention and go out of her to be around you. It will flow naturally and you'll know she likes you. The rest just happens. So don't worry, you're going to have a girlfriend soon enough. I mean it.
2007-02-11 13:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want one bad enough to make sure that you're dressed nicely, and are willing to face multiple possibly hurtful rejections, and come out smiling?
Do you want one bad enough that you'll stop looking for the most visually pleasing girls and open your mind to girls that may have more to offer besides looks?
Do you want one bad enough to work on your obvious issues with self image, and the stifling narcissism of shyness? (everyone's not watching you)
If not, you probably don't want one bad enough.
2007-02-11 13:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONFIDANCE. You need it!!!! And try to talkto girls more even if they are just your friends, that might give you some practice. If you know a girl that you like and start acting with confidence she might start to notice you and try to talk to her, just little chats here and then. Have confidence in your self remember that. Good luck!!
2007-02-11 13:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Frank-36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start hanging w/ ur guy friends and girls and just talk to them the same way w/ guys..only dont talk about GUY topics...you no what i mean??/ then youll start having girls for friends...then one thing leads to another and !poof! theres your girl friend..
2007-02-11 13:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and go up to a girl that you like and just say hi, then everything may go smoothly, don't stress yourself out by thinking of what to say, just wing it.
2007-02-11 13:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by DarkAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want a GF to have a GF, you get one by loving a girl.
Nick
2007-02-11 13:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may friendly first to her to the girl you like. start teasing until go her attention when she miss you, that means she likes you too.
2007-02-11 13:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋