Ok I was at this party. And my dad decides he doesnt want to see me any more. We were so close he was like my best friend and I love him. I was so upset that he didnt want to see any more. I had a little brother down at his house. And now I never get to see him again. I miss him so much. I had a step mom and i dont get to see them any more. I miss them so much. I dont really have a dad now. But my step dad adopted me and I just dont have any feelings toward him. I dislike him so very much. I miss them all so much. A big part of me is missing like half of my heart there is a big whole there. They were giving me my own bed room, cause i had to share one with my sister and they were giving me the only room in the base ment. I just dont know what to do. Thanks for your time.
2007-02-11 13:10:32 · 4 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You dont say exactly WHY he said this to you. I take it he didnt approve of your partying?
If thats the case write him a letter and tell him how much him and his family mean to you. Also tell him you are sorry for any problems.
Im guessing hes worried you will be a bad influence on his other kids. Tell him they are more important to you than you doing things like partying and you wont do that anymore. Ask him for another chance.
Ok then if he gives it to you make sure you are mature enough to follow thru with your promise because he may not give you a second chance.
Write the same letter to your stepmother.
Good luck
2007-02-11 13:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about what's been happening with your dad. I can tell his actions have hurt you a lot. I can't explain why he's been acting this way, but just remember that adults have their own problems in life, just like people your age do, and maybe your dad's acting this way because he's going through his own stuff, and it's not because of you. Adults aren't perfect, and being a parent is a big responsibility, and maybe your father isn't feeling like he's up to the challenge right now. I hope you can find someone trustworthy to talk about this stuff with. Maybe a friend your own age, or a teacher or counselor or vice principal or somebody at school, or even the mom of one of your friends. Dont be afraid to lean on somoene when you're going thru a rough patch. You sound like a very perceptive kid and you can go through things like this without letting them get the best of you.
2007-02-11 21:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by njyogibear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't explain what you did..there must be a reason for a father to do that...cause if you were that close then you must have done something to lose his trust and friendship..a father will not just give up his children...if you did something terribly wrong and you know what it is and you know he has the right to act this way ask for his forgiveness and promise you wouldn't misbehave again...and gain his trust again and learn you lesson .
but if there was no reason which I don't believe then ask for explanation....and good luck
2007-02-11 21:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by sky7th_7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Love I am so sorry that this has happened to you....Did something happen at the party that caused all this?? Can you talk to your mom about this at all.. maybe you can send your father a letter letting him know how horribly this is making you feel.....
2007-02-11 21:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn Denise Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋