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2007-02-11 13:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by Jrock 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Original ideas not flowers etc

2007-02-11 13:10:43 · update #1

10 answers

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-ask-a-woman-on-a-date

Follow these simple steps....

2007-02-11 13:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by clarky303 4 · 0 0

Hey I got a few pointers that might help you out....There is some good info over here :)
You don't need to look like Brad Pitt or drive a Mercedes to sweep a girl off her feet. Those things, by themselves, will never work on a woman who is really worth courting. Here's how to let that special girl you've never talked to know that she's appreciated, without being creepy.
1. Find something about her that is truly special. Does she have anything about her that is unique? A subtle little quirk or feature that you find endearing, but that no one else seems to notice?
2.
Let her know that you think she's special without expecting anything (a phone number, a date) in return. If there is something specific that you notice about her aside the common that probably everyone notices, i.e., "Wow, nice tan" or "Oh, you have pretty eyes." If this girl is really interesting to you, there should be something far from the common that you notice. Here are some examples:

* "Hi, I don't mean to make you feel weird or anything, but you've just got the prettiest freckles I've ever seen."
* "Excuse me, but I can't walk out of here without telling you that you have an amazing laugh."
She'll probably smile, say thank you, look away, and maybe even blush. Remember that even if ultimately, it doesn't work out, you've at least made her day by giving her a true compliment. However, if she's good looking, she probably gets several compliments a day, so offer her one that is as unique as you believe she may be, like mentioning something about her personality. Don't come across as needy. Unless you really have your life together, you'll just be one of those other guys.
3.
Offer her your company, and walk away. That is, right before you leave, give her your phone number or screen name, or offer a time and a place to meet, and let her know that if she chooses not to take you up on your offer, you'll never bother her again. Don't give her a chance to accept or reject you. Make your offer and run. Give her a chance to think about it by herself, and wonder "Hmmm...I wonder what he's like." If you do this confidently, she'll feel compelled by her curiosity to get to know you better, and she won't feel like she's being pressured or chased. Also, the fact that she might never see you again will encourage her to follow up on any glimmer of hope she has about you being the guy of her dreams.
4. Don't look back. If she doesn't call or show up, leave her alone. She's not interested, and if that ends up being the case, don't take it personally. However, if she does call you or meet with you, you've probably swept her off her feet! The rest depends on chemistry and compatibility. Good luck!


Tips

* Here's an example of what you can say: "Hey, look, I've gotta go, but you seem like a really amazing person, and I'd like to get to know you better. Here's my number; call me and I'd love to take you out for a cup of coffee and talk. But if you're not interested, that's cool, too. I just didn't want to let this opportunity pass. Ok so just call me or something and here's my number again. " But don't say that you have to go if you really don't. It just makes you sound stupid.
* For inspiration, watch the movie 'Office Space' and study the scene where the main character goes up to the waitress (Jennifer Aniston) and lets her know that he'll be at the restaurant next door.
* The key is to make a woman feel special and appreciated, but there's a fine line between admiration and harassment. If you cross that subtle line and make her feel uncomfortable, you've ruined your chances of sweeping her off her feet.
* If your intentions aren't genuine, and your words aren't honest, then even if you get the girl at first, it's bound to end in disappointment.
* Steps 1 and 2 will probably sweep any woman off her feet, even if you've been married for 25 years.
* Try to walk the line between a feel-good compliment and a cheesy pick up line. Be sincere about it, but don't go over the top.
* Remember that all girls are different, and there's no one way to make any girl fall for you.

2007-02-11 13:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0 0

Umm..be yourself? You can't trick a girl into falling in love with you by giving her material things and saying things you've heard from other people...because once you run out of other peoples creative ideas..all you will have is yourself...and if she doesn't like that..then she didn't like you to begin with

2007-02-11 13:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 0 0

get her a ring/necklace/bracelet and characteristic it engraved with the words 'i note of you' write her an exceptionally sweet letter get a photo of you and her collectively then write on the back of it 'you propose the international to me' do somthing the area you go away her a splash ask your self this may be plenty extra romantic and may prefer to provide her time to imagine about what your providing her really of you actually popping out with it to her face. i imagine guys are somtimes scared to do something extremely romantic because they imagine they'll seem stupid and dent their matcho photo. yet extremely females love that type of situation, i genuinely choose my boyfriend were extra romantic. i comprehend how somtimes individuals are scared to reveal friendship into somthing extra incase they loose what they'd with that categorical yet friendship is the perfect grounds for a relationship. my boyfriend is my perfect pal <3

2016-11-27 02:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Buy her flowers it works everytime. I have only gotten flowers 2 times in my life. Please do it it works if it doesn't send me an e-mail and I'll give you your money back! Thats an offer you csn't refuse.

2007-02-11 13:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by vickielynnperry 2 · 0 0

What you do is rob a bank and show them that you are very rich. Most are so gullible and naieve, they'll go for that!

2007-02-11 13:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

flowers and good treatment

2007-02-11 13:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0 0

Be yourself & if she likes you your relationship will blossom

2007-02-11 13:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0 0

compliment her, flirt with her...then ignore her!

2007-02-12 01:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

get rich

2007-02-11 13:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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