We had a mutual break up. At first he said he didn’t want to end up in a loveless relationship and he was just thinking about stuff. He said we could try to have a relationship again later. A week later he said he knew two weeks prior to us breaking up that we weren’t going to work. Then he said we weren’t meant to be together, we didn’t mesh well, he didn’t love me at all, and we would never get back together. The most recent thing he told me is that he still loved me when we broke up and that he felt he couldn’t do anything right for me. He would always say we were still friends though. Thing is he hasn’t been acting like much of a friend. He won’t really look at me. I’ll wave or smile at him but he’ll stare right past me. He won’t sit next to me in the class that we have together anymore. He won’t talk to me unless I ask him a direct question. I told him to have a nice weekend. No response.
2007-02-11 13:07:08 · 10 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know we aren’t going to be together again and he doesn’t want me, and he knows I think that. So why is he trying to distance himself from me? We have mutual friends and when were all hanging out he’ll talk to everyone but me. In the hallways when I’m walking with our friends he just runs on ahead instead of walking with us. He doesn’t even say bye. He acts normal but avoids me. Why can’t I just be his friend? I’m not flirting with him or anything like that, I just want him to talk to me the way he does everyone else. We haven’t been together for a whole month. I would think he’d be able to start acting normal by now. Why can’t he just be my friend?
Oh yeah, and he dosn't look at me. But somtimes I'll turn around from doing somthing and catch him looking at me and then I look straight at him and he looks away. It's happend a couple of times...
And he hasn't been going to any of the after school clubs. We are in all the same ones.
2007-02-11 13:07:37 · update #1
Guys are just wierd. Sometimes they do and say mean things to keep you from knowing how they really feel. If I was you I'd just not worry about it and treat him the same way he treats you. Then he'll realize how he makes you feel and if he really wants to still be friends with you he'll eventually come around. If he don't then just move on and find somebody else. Don't waste all your time waiting on him.
2007-02-11 13:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he still has feelings for you and likes you. The same thing happened with my ex and I. We "took a break" and I realized how much I really loved her even though I thought I didn't anymore. When I tried to get back with her after a three week "break" she said no, she just wanted to be friends. So now I am doing everything in the world to try to get her back, but it hasn't worked. We still say I love you, kiss, hug, and do other things, but she says we are "friends." So if you want him tell him if not keep things the way they are. All he is trying to do is distance himself from you because he still has feelings for you and the farther he distances himself the faster the feelings will go away and he can get over you. If you have anymore ?'s (chirs111805@yahoo.com)
2007-02-11 13:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, when people break up, saying " Lets remain friends " is just something you say... you don't mean it. He probalby got hurt in your so called mutual break up and he is acting like a jerk to try and save face. He is probably still feeling hurt and that is why he is not talking to you or showing up to your after school clubs. That's just how break ups go.
2007-02-11 13:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to figure out what he wants and save face at the same time. He's probably trying to figure out what he's feeling and seeing you makes it harder, so he's avoiding you to prevent mixed messages. I've done the same thing... although maybe it's different for guys.
2007-02-11 13:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by petral6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 04:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him hurt your head. forget him, if he speaks, then you speak, if he does not, that is alright too. Just go on like he is not their, he is immature. you have some fun, don't let him stop you from having a good time!
2007-02-11 13:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he still has feelings but doesnt know how to express them and just tries to ignore you
2007-02-11 13:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by teddybear34565 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only say that so they dont look like an a**hole
2007-02-11 13:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he had other one
2007-02-11 13:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he isnt worth your time unless you truly love him
2007-02-11 13:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe [: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋