I broke up with this guy 4 months ago and he won't leave me or my family alone! What do I do?? He is really starting to scare me, I don't think he is right in the head anymore!
2007-02-11 13:05:34 · 12 answers · asked by bittersweet 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell the police.
2007-02-18 23:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there! my first g/f did that to me.
Don't give him any attention. if he calles, don't answer; sends and email, mark it spam (then i will not come to your inbox anymore) and don't reply.
Nothing says don't have any form of contact with me like a police officer with a restraining order. Then if he even says 'Hi' he can go see 'Bubba' and 'Big John' for a little bit.
2007-02-19 11:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Right 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you call the cops??? Do you have a brother or some male family members or companions???
Either get a restraining order or tell all of your male friends to beat that azz. He'll either get tired of getting locked up or he'll get tired of getting his azz beat.
2007-02-19 11:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by The One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if it was me i would tell him nicely if he still dont understand i would find a big bold guy and chill with that guy and tell him to leave me alone or else hes gonna have to answer to him if not its time to get your father or even police or brother involved
2007-02-19 11:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Angel T, get a Restraining order immediately, like yesturday! tomorrow!! NOW! Get the Picture????
2007-02-19 11:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents can help and if this guy doesn't take the hint, talk to a policeman. They are the experts. It might just be enough to make this jerk think twice. Good luck and God bless you.
2007-02-18 17:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Garnet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is scary. please take it serious. try to have a serious talk with him if you think he'd be cool. just explain to him that you still care about him but that you need some time apart. tell him if he cares about you at all he'll respect that.
if he keeps crossing the line and you suspect he's dangerous, talk to his family and friends or get a restraining order, good luck
2007-02-11 13:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by cali1089 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow.. that is a scarey thing wat u do is sit n talk to him ask him y is he doing this to u n ur family & if he truly cares for u than he would leave u alone... if not u will be force to go to the cops
2007-02-19 13:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he loves you he will leave you alone and free to pursue your happiness. if that doesn't work, he's a stalker, call in the police.
2007-02-11 13:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to just leave you alone or youll call the cops
2007-02-11 13:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋