there's this girl i like who noes i like her. she's not really into relationships right now. anywayz, i've been bugging her and apologizing and back and forth and last night i sent a 1500 word apology to her. what im trying to say is, if she likes the apology and thinks its sweet, and well, if she hugs me or anything. how should i react to it?
i don't wanna seem like im desparate if she does something, and i don't wanna seem like i don't care when she does something?
u probably think im a wus or too shy to talk to girls
all i need is the proper reaction advice for me to use if anything happens
thanks
2007-02-11 13:01:25 · 16 answers · asked by papa'll kick ur ass 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go with the flow as ppl say, just hug her back y aknow once she hugs you dont push away you hug her right back and then just look her in the eyes after the hug and just ask her if you two can start over again and next time tell her that you wont make the same mistakes.
2007-02-11 13:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound crass here, but you've been bugging her then went on to write a 1500 word essay on why you are sorry for bugging her? I don't think I would be too pleased with that. It comes off as pretty desperate. I would have let it go. If she is happy, then let her be happy. Stop bugging her. If she slaps you, run. Be prepared that she my not react at all and completely ignore you. Either way, stop bugging her. She's not interested and has told you as much.
2007-02-11 13:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i understand ur situation completely. I used to be that way. And i had to learn the hard way, as you will learn with this girl, about a thing called the "friend zone".
A female puts u in a category after the first time you meet her: potential mate or friend. There is nothing you can do to hop from one zone to the next. And 1500 word apologies will def keep u in the friend zone or put u there if u weren't already.
Move on, but keep her as a girl who you can talk to about girl advice. That's the strategy i use with my past girl mistakes and it works great.
2007-02-11 13:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww sweetpea, it sounds like you are interested in her just a bit more than she is in you. Most women like having a boyfriend. Most women also know what they want in a guy. Whether it be tall or short, sexy or rugid, passive or aggressive. You may not represent what she wants in a man. Maybe you should give her some space if she doesn't respond the way you are expecting.If she does respond the way you want her too, take things one step at a time. Don't be too overbearing.
2007-02-11 14:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by LovelyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like it when guys play it cool... when you get her reaction and if she hugs u hug her back like your thankful but don't seem too overly eager... try not to bug her so much if you let a girl know you like her and your always too needy she has the upper hand and will probably take her sweet time to date you... subtly let her know your still interested and just lay off a bit and once she sees that you are not just going to wait around on her... hopefully she'll make the move towards a relationship with you
2007-02-11 13:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has a big forehead and walk away.
Few days later she will chase you down, obsessed with the big forehead comment, you then tell her hey big forehead and smile and say God I love big foreheads. Then walk away. She will be more obsessed and now she will remember you forever because no one has ever said she had a big forehead. However stress that you love her big forehead.
Then just kick back and act like a jerk, chicks love that and wala you are in. If you want to keep her just keep throwing her away.
2007-02-12 17:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a perfect example of why this county is so wasted. Go back to school, learn to spell, write, put a sentence together and come back in a couple of years.
2007-02-11 13:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jim F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude a girl doesn't like a guy who keeps apologizing for the things he do it shows he can't stand up for what he does i did before and the girl i like thinks i was weakling...
Advice... be a MAN... and accept anything that will come tomorrow.
2007-02-11 13:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you apologizing for? if it requires 1500 words i doubt she gonna wanna be hugging you. get her flowers for valentines day, if she hugs you- dont be cocky and act not interested you better be hugging her hellaz back
2007-02-11 13:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Hayden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly once you initiate talking then it is going to likely be troublesome no longer to end talking, it is the way it is with my guy associates, from time to time talking basically comes evidently. and she will enhance the communication too. so that you would no longer ought to emphasize about issues being silent. you need to discuss your training, what instructors suck, and all that. Halloween, and valleyscare and dissimilar of alternative issues. =]
2016-12-04 01:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by bartow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋