He doesn't think that drugs are bad for you at all and we fight about it because his friends ask him to do it and I think he wants to. Extacy and cocain..I don't know what to do, it's tearing us apart even though i know he's not doing it but I think he will.
2007-02-11 12:45:39 · 4 answers · asked by Nicole D 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
If he has not even done anything yet and you are on his case then you two need to break up
2007-02-15 07:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pick your battles in any relationship, but one against him taking drugs is one which is definitely worth fighting for. Drugs are something which will completely destroy his life if he takes them. Right now he has the agency to choose to take drugs or not, but once he starts he will loose that agency and will be a slave to the drugs.
And as far as trust goes, if he loses your trust that is a legitimate concern, not you having issues with trust. Trust issues where the person not trusting someone is at fault are when the person is trustworthy but not trusted. If they're not trustworthy, they don't deserve trust. If he takes drugs when you trust him not to, he is not trustworthy.
If he doesn't think drugs are bad for you, he should really look around. It shows that he is super naieve if he doesn't believe that.
2007-02-11 21:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Laurel W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing for sure ..when and if he does start on the coke etc you'll certainly see the change appear and it will increase rapidly ...do yourself a favour and bail out ..the problem with these drugs is that they start out being great for sex and end up the opposite ..and then everything gets sold to buy more etc and the vicious circle starts over again ..no better liar exists than a person on drugs ..i lived with one for ten years ..still picking up the pieces..bye bye boyfriend !!
2007-02-11 20:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by leonard m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both need Jesus, I was addicted to drugs for 20 years and Jesus set me free. I allmost died from a heart attack on coke. I also was a speed freak. If he does drugs he will never be the same, don't let him....Only Jesus can set you free, give your life to Him today.
2007-02-11 20:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by RiZzOn 1 · 1⤊ 5⤋