I have a situation. I saw recently an ex-g/f of mine. We had a very short relationship when I was 17 (lasted for 3 days) I broke it off because it wasn't working.
Now, I saw her again recently and we are starting to hang out more but heres the snag. She has a b/f and I told her that I am not interested to steal her away. We set up a few meetings but she flaked out twice. Both times, she claims that her b/f said that is she goes out with me, than the relationship is over. Both times she called me a few days later saying she was sorry.
What should I say to her? I don't like being flaked out like this and I want to say this but I need some ideas on what to say.
additionally, if you have other suggestions, I am open to them
2007-02-11 12:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by H Vice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has a BF, she was your GF, she is flaky, and you arent planning on pursuing her...
scenario seems clear to me: if she flakes out, thats no big thing to you, you and her are over. she has problems with her BF if she is flaky, sounds like she is doing something behind her BF's back if she plans then breaks.
you dont need that in your life...you dont need to play her game.
2007-02-11 12:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you went out before it lasted three days cause it wasn't working...it doesn't sound like it's working now either. let her work out her own drama with her man.
just let her know that you think she has some things that she needs to take care of and you're not going to get involved in breaking up any relationship. let her know that if she's available in the future you'd be interested.
2007-02-11 12:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by cali1089 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she wants to make her relationship work with the other guy so what you need to do is just tell her that you would love to be her friend but if its going to cause her problems then you will keep away. Tell her you wll always be there for her...
best that i can tell ya... its a sucky situation
2007-02-11 12:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not interested in her, then why are you jealous? You should ask yourself that question. I think you are falling for her again and you should be honest with her and with yourself.
2007-02-11 12:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth
2007-02-11 12:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by amanda(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋