Recently, we hit a rough patch, and my fiance told me that he was bored with our sex life... partly with his domination of it - meaning he wanted me to be a little more dominant - as well as the fact that we always tend to do the same things. So, I would really appreciate some answers on ways to spice things up and get us back to the way we were when we met. Because I can't handle the "not happy with our sex life" aspect. I really want to be able to please him, but unfortunately, I am just not as creative as I would like to be. Help Please...
2007-02-11 12:32:07 · 7 answers · asked by hello_butterfly13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok one thing you could do is blind fold him and lay him down on the bed and he is not allowed to touch and unless you say so. and you kiss where ever you want and touch where ever you want and go up to him with your mouth near his mouth but dont kiss him just let him now you are there things like that will work.
try new possitions like if he suggest something and you are not sure if you will like it or not just try it anyway at least once.
write him a sexy email telling him what you will do to him when the next time you guys make love.
if you can make a porno together
or if you masterbate tape it for him then let him watch it later.
if you can have sex in a public place like the woods or on a side road somewhere.
or you can have sex at his work place if possible.
and there are some books you can get that have more suggestions some have sex games in them. me and my husband have used those too before.
well that is some of the suggestions i have for you.
2007-02-11 12:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than tell you what you must do, i'll give you a website that may be more helpful in guiding you through being creative. You can visit both of these websites and view a couple of clips from the domination type category and perhaps this will give you and idea what it is your fiance would be interested in.
www.clipdirectory.com and www.searchvids.com
2007-02-11 12:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt asking him in case you adult men can placed aside faster or later a week or month or regardless of the position you understand that you'll have sex. Make it an finished day or a minimum of a few hours the position you play sex video games watch videos, lay in mattress or someplace and are available across one yet another. See what number situations you need to do it in a particular era of time stuff like that. i understand sex is meant to be spontaneous besides the undeniable fact that it feels like spontaneity isn't operating for you adult men.
2016-12-04 01:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by bartow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some role playing. Buy some sexy costumes. You know, naughty school girl, teacher, cheerleader, stewardess. Then act out the role, like you are his cheerleader girlfriend and he is the captian of the football team or whatever. Then you be the one to initiate sex. Like pretend like you two haven't done it yet and he doesn't know how to approach you for it, so it is all in your hands. So you are the first one to kiss him, then you are the one who has to undress him, then he watches while you slowly undress yourself, and then you position him and you climb on top or whatever. Make him just lay back and take whatever you decide to do to him. This should excite him. If not, then I don't know. Good luck.
2007-02-11 12:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to get things going them rent a good hot movie. man o man that works.
2007-02-11 12:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try different angles..you could give him a bj or touch him caress him, lick him all over....dress u[p for him....cuff him....idk there are tons of thing to do!
2007-02-11 12:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex toys
2007-02-11 13:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋