Does it huhhuhhuh? just wondering bcuz I am too young (13 years old ) but every1 at my school is talking about it and sum people have been pregnant.AND I REALLY WANNA DO IT SAFELY AND PROTENTED BUT I DUNT WANNA HRT MY SELF BY DOING IT..AND please don't try to talk me out of it ...because really its my choice and even thoough most people tell you not to do "IT" the chances are you are gunna do it sumtime when they told ya not to and whether they even FIND OUT ABOUT IT OR NOT is ur decision so dunt please.AND if u intend on being rude then I will just ignore u so plzplplz help
2007-02-11 12:15:00 · 15 answers · asked by Tori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Goodness! People in your school are getting pregnant and you still want to have sex? Weird.
2007-02-11 12:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends. If your hymen is still there then it will probably hurt and even if its not there they it still might hurt. Its different for different people. I would say that at your age it probably will hurt, but you can never be sure until you try. And yeah i know people in middle school talked about sex all the time but in actuality less than ten percent of people under the age of 16 are having sex. So most of what you hear is bull ****, but obviously some of it is true (the pregnancies). Yeah its your choice but if i were you I would wait until you found someone that you loved weather it be girlfriend or wife. In my case I lost my virginity at a young age and now i wish i hadn't because of various reasons. So do what you will but defiantly have protection!!!!!!
2007-02-11 12:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt, yes. You won't enjoy it the first four or five or more times. You are too young - even if you don't want to hear it. You should talk to an adult you can trust - a school counselor or someone. The mantra here is "There will be NO LOVE without a GLOVE." In other words, he must wear a condom at all times.
Remember when you give up your virginity - there is no going back - and believe me - there will be a time (in the not to distant future) that you will wish you could go back!
2007-02-11 12:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it really hurts. I was 18 when I first did it and it hurt like hell the first few times. Not trying to talk you out of it, but you really are too young emotionally for the responsibility. If your mind is made up, though, at least make sure to use condoms and try to talk about it with an adult you can trust.
Listen to Monkey Lips and Filipino Guy With a Hat. There's no going back once it's done, and really what's the rush? If you want to talk this through email me.
2007-02-11 12:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lordy. If you get pregnant how are you going to support the child? Answer: TAX PAYERS! You are insane! You have lost your mind! Your so-called "friends" are not doing you any favors by encouraging you. I'm not against kids. I'm against kids having kids. Do you want to be a grandmother at 26? It could happen. Quit being so goddamn selfish and have a life first.
2007-02-11 12:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course I am going to say to wait b/c of the diseases out there and getting pregnant. I got pregnant when I was a teenager and no one owuld help me and I had to give my cild up for adoption. This is the worst pain I have ever felt in my life and would not want anyone to have to go through it. It's just not worth it, it's just sex and there are so many other things to live for and to do. You don't want to ruin your life. If you do decide to have sex then protect yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-11 12:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will spare you the lecture on waiting. Please use protection. As far as pain. . . . my first time didn't hurt at all. It wasn't as great as I had hoped for either though. I had built it up way too much. You need to find someone that will be gentle with you and willing to go slow. It will hurt if you're not relaxed enough. You must be all systems go in order for it to feel good.
Oh hun, please be careful.
2007-02-15 08:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you are way too young to be having sex and if you think that guys are going to only like you because your having sex then your wrong and yes it does hurt alot but then it stops so hope it helps and noone has spellesd because like that since a good minute ago
2007-02-15 09:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_see_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not gone tell you not have sex cuz when i was ur age i did and im a man i been wit several virgins the key is to not to rush or force any penetration both partners must be relaxed
2007-02-11 12:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by hu314a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 too.
Just don't . Even if your partner is wearing protection , there is still a chance that you will get pregnant or get other STD's .
Just masturbate.
2007-02-11 12:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋