ok...well there is a guy my friend introduced me to and my friend dident tell me everything about the guy i guess cause he dident think i would like the guy so i started to talking to the guy alot like texting and the computer and stuff and i ended up really,really likeing the guy and the guy likes me too but then i found out alot of stuff about him like bad stuff im still a teenager so the stufff is bad to me like not being a vergin,almost getting his gf pregnant,fingering,arested just alot of bad stuff i dident know about when i started to like him and then my friend told me about it after i met the guy so now i can see that the guy i likes was a lie,but i still cant get him out of my head i stilll like him alot and i just dont know what to do?
2007-02-11 12:03:52 · 2 answers · asked by tiny&proud 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what? I was in the same situation. I really liked this guy and he asked me out and we hit it off. And sooner or later, I found out what he was really like. The rumors of pregnancy and drugs and such started pouring into my head from the people around me and it was overwhelming.
It was a real hard time for me, girl, and I was kind of scared to tell you the truth! I didn't want to end up making bad choices like him and getting the rep he did, so I decided to split.
It was hard, but I got through it. I went up to him one day with a friend and told him that his past was just too much for me and I wanted to break up. And honey, it was pretty hard for me becasue I liked him a lot, but I got over it. I dawned on me that there are plenty of other guys out there who are just as affectionate and sweet, without the bad records, you know?
The best advice I could give would be to let him know you love him, and because of that, you're willing to make the better choice for him, and be on your way. And you know what? I still think of that guy all the time. He's never really left me, but now I can look back and say to myself I made the better choice, and I can thank him for that. :)
2007-02-11 12:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is alot of things i can tell you about this. You said he was bad but if you did not know that untill you asked or some one told you then maby they are lieing or he has changed. You seem like a decent person to know what is right and what is wrong so if he is nice to you then there is no stopping you from liking him. You can always go out with him and then see how he acts then if he is bad or not what you think then you can decide then!! Hope that helped and best of luck!!:)
2007-02-11 20:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dancer24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋