the guy i've been crushing on all year has fallen for another girl...but the worst part is that the girl has everything!! class president, completely athletic, tons of friends, bright blue eyes, long blonde hair...u get the picture. it's not fair! i thought that me and him were actually starting 2 get somewhere. why is it that you always want what you can't have?
2007-02-11 12:01:46 · 16 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you took to long darling.
2007-02-11 12:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by krazy miss speler 06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't always get what you want!
Stop wanting the impossible.
If he's head over heels about this other
girl, there is nothing you can do short of
sabatoging their relationship. Don't do it!
If you love him, let him go.
If you love him, wish him happiness.
If you love him, humbly accept his decision.
Try to find someone else who wants you
for who you are. Stop competing. It hardly
ever works.
Still, don't forsake his friendship.
Maybe this relationship won't work and
he'll come to his senses and come back to
to you.
Maybe he'll realize that going after the class
elite is more of a hassel than he bargined
for.
Maybe he'll realize that true love can only
come when it's reciprocated.
You don't need fame or wealth or tons of friends to have love.
What you need is a personality that reeks
with self-confidence, something in you that
tells the world who you are. A great smile
helps heaps too!
Don't worry. He's not the only one for you.
There will be others.
If you don't want to hurt like you're hurting
now, don't listen to your heart. It never knows
what's best for you both. Think and listen to
your mind. It knows what's good for you
because it's got memory. It knows what
makes you happy as well what hurts you.
This is not as romantic as you might like,but
it's true. Listen to yourself. What do you want
and do you have the means to get it. Set
your goals high enough to where you have
to challenge yourself to reach them, but be
humble enough to accept defeat.
You will find that by doing this, you will
develope a strong character and a vibrant
personality.
There is more to you than you realize.
I wish you good luck in everything you
undertake. I am confident that once you
get over this present dilema, you will
achieve and fulfill all of your dreams and
aspirations
2007-02-11 20:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by citizen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on!! Dark haired girls are MUCH prettier than the normal blonde hair blue eyes deal.
Of course you'd be feeling pretty bad about the whole thing but, if he hasn't stuck with you then its not meant to be (sorry if that sounds harsh)
You didn't say anything about this girl being really nice or anything, you just said she was pretty and athletic, so you've probably got more going for you, you can probably at least hold a conversation.
2007-02-11 20:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about this. Upset the girl by becoming really good friends with the guy. Converse with him, then start letting him in on your life, he'll realize that you are a great person.
That is the way to win a guy.
2007-02-11 20:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by freezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out what she's not doing for him and do that--if it's worth it. She has all these great features, but maybe she won't sit down with him and watch a football game. (Of course, that's not so helpful now that football season is over.) Maybe she's a prude. Maybe she just doesn't treat him right. You'll have to fight for him, and you're at a disadvantage since she's already with him, but you have to fight if you want to win.
2007-02-11 20:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't always have what you want and the girl seems pretty tempting... if you want him do it like the movies or love series(asian love series) tell him in his face that you love and if necessary cry him a river...
but do remember this isn't like the movies or the love series this sort of things fail in the real world
2007-02-11 20:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... I really don't know what you should do. But I think you should try asking him out. It'll be a bold move because not too many guys get asked out by girls. You might as well give it a try because you may have already lost to this girl.
2007-02-11 20:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are meant to be together than it will happen eventually. Guys don't like it when they see girls trying to hard. It shows that they are weak(im not saying u are). God makes everything happen for a reason, so dont stress out about it. Good things happent to those who wait, remember that.
2007-02-11 20:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jonathan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX! He may like this girl for all those reasons, but Its highschool kiddo! Chances are that if you stay his friend and just be there for him. He will begin to desire what you bring to the table as well, Then you make your move!
2007-02-11 20:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I can say is that you cant make someone like you...maybe if it doesnt work out with that girl he will realize ur the one that was there from the start...just talk to him every now and then but dont be too pushy
2007-02-11 20:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r sooooooooo LUCKY that im here 2 help!!!!!
first of all,u gotta look HOTTER then usual!!
be everything that girl is BUT better!!!!!!
you're jealous of her and u need 2 make HER JEALOUS!!!!!
flirt with him right in front of her!!!!!!!
and if she sez something then diss her, after all she is probably some rich white-*** girl!!!! am i lying??!!
u hav 2 make him WANT U!!!!!!!
trust me from recent experience!!!!
want more advice??!!
just e-mail me!!!!!
the really good advice from me is private so u gotta IM me or something!!!
GOOD LUCK WIT THAT DUDE!!!!!
2007-02-11 20:10:59 · answer #11 · answered by kimmz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋