I have this problem, every time I like a guy, and he shows that he likes me back I end up chickening out and close myself up.
I really don’t want to do that this time. I’ve kind of got this thing going with my best friend’s cousin. She is all for it, in fact it was her idea…
I’m nervous to just jump into a relationship with him because I don’t want to end up shutting him out of my life because he’s a really nice guy.
Should I just close my eyes and jump and stop worrying? Is my over analyzing a bad thing?
2007-02-11 11:48:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being cautious is never a bad thing, but being too cautious all the time can really put a damper on personal relationships. It's really hard to let go and trust, but sometimes you just have to throw caution to the wind and let it all hang out. Just think of it this way.....we all fall down. It's how we learn, grow strong, and move on. How are you going to learn and progress in life if you're never willing to take the chance? Be brave if you think that it's worth it. You can do it!
2007-02-11 11:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ericka H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are you >>worrying<< about?? Why not let yourself enjoy venturing in to a relationship or a budding friendship and see where things go? Imagine what would happen if you actually opened your heart up to letting someone in??? Oh my god ... you just might end up being happy!! *gasps*
2007-02-11 11:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....no your doing the right thing the worst relashonship is one your scared to be in thats no fun at all.when u find the perfect guy you wont have to ask questions you will be all over it like salt on a penut you wont second guess yourself you will just know its right.
but if your scared about another relashonship it seems to me you have been hurt in the past.so maybe you heart NEEDS time to mend
God bless
2007-02-11 11:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by tiny&proud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think bout stuff too much cause it makes things seem soo much worse!!
Just jump into it and have fun...hope it works out
2007-02-11 11:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and get to know this guy. Just hang out and get to know each other. It doesn't have to be a serious thing, you can both be friends.
2007-02-11 11:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just giver!!! stop thinking about it and just do it....trust me you will be happy that you did it cuz you will be amazed at what you were missing out on all this time.!!!!! you will be happy and he will be happy just remember not to close up and keep him around.
2007-02-11 11:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by loveendswithguns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
Ask yourself this if I works out would you be happier then if you didnt meet him?
2007-02-11 11:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you overanalyze too much
close your eyes, jump in, and pray to god (or whoever you worship) to get you through this
2007-02-11 11:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know cause i have that same problem
2007-02-11 11:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by cooleyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUMP NOW. just JUMP NOW.
2007-02-11 11:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋