i dated steve for 6 years. last year after i wasn't able to deal with his depression and the way i was being treated any more i broke up with him... we still lived together. last he brought a girl home for the first time since we broke up and i was heart broken. i told him then i loved him, but i didn't know if i was able to take him back, then the following day i wrote him a letter saying that i was sorry and he should do what makes him happy. he chose her.. and then this morning i broke down again.. i have all these feelings of hurt and anger. how do i move on from something like this. i asked him if he could just keep it on the low side with her for a while so i can slowly recover and get on. but he ended up seeing her that day after telling me he didnt and then he's seeing her again tonight.. he's waited till after i get home to go out with her... im devestated.
2007-02-11 11:44:53 · 5 answers · asked by river_crystal03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you have been with Steve for so long its become a habit to love him.I guess you still live with him because its comfortable and you still want to be close to him.Only time heals the pain of a break up.Write down all your reasons why you broke up with him and read them when ever you feel down about him.Go and spoil yourself with a new dress and haircut/ style, surround yourself with good friends and start trying to have some fun in your life.Believe that your decision was for the best and life does go on.We are all beautiful people and if you let that shine through other guys will take an interest in you as well.Then the dating game begins again. try not to feel sad make sure you are eating properly as well and get proper rest. Take care
2007-02-13 12:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by ursula k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out TODAY pack up now get off of the computer & pack & leave before he comes home even if you have to have someone else go back for the rest of your stuff !!!
that is so not right to be living there still,
get out & start a new life & sod him!!
get a hobby
join a sports club
do volunteer work ,you may meet friends there & helping others will help you move on better & faster
but PLEASE RESPECT yourself & have no more to do with him
2007-02-11 12:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I nevertheless had some emotions for my ex as a lot as a three hundred and sixty 5 days and a 1/2 later. i look back now and that i'm happy I not in any respect went back. after I did see him or run into him, it became continuously an same problems all once extra!! He not in any respect end eating and not in any respect may. i in my opinion may stay with the present bf, decrease all ties off with the ex, he's really going to reason complications in case you stay in contact!! supply your bf the note of he advantages as you may have him supply you! He should be the purely guy on your existence that has your complete heart. good success woman!!
2016-11-27 02:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by wehrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell are you still living with him? MOVE OUT! It's not that hard to see thats what u need to do
2007-02-11 11:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE OUT.
2007-02-11 11:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋