I've always been attracted to fat girls. The main trouble is, it's more than just a preference, I'm completely obsessed with the thought of them getting fatter, outgrowing clothes, getting stuck, breaking chairs etc.
I've dated a few girls who are on the plump side and I'm sure they'd be horrified if they knew that I'd fantasized about them getting fatter, to the extent that I feel really guilty about me being with them.
Is there any way of losing a fetish, such as hypnosis or some other kind of therapy, or if not, what do you think I should do about my problem, which is stunting my lovelife?
2007-02-11 11:36:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
In answer to your question, the guilt comes from the fact that 99% of fat girls don't share this love of being fat. I would want them to become fatter, against their wishes.
Sure, I could find a fat girl to date, but one who wants to get even bigger would be extremely hard to find and besides that fantasy, what is the likelihood of having anything else in common?
The one fat girl I've been with was determined to lose weight, which I was supportive of. It just didn't feel right, knowing my desires for her were for to gain weight. That's where a lot of the guilt comes from.
2007-02-11 13:32:02 · update #1
You don't need to get rid of a fetish. You just need to find some fat girls with whom you can share your fantasies. Advertise in your local singles paper. I assure you, you'll get a lot of hits. Fat girls are used to losing out to our skinny sisters all the time. It will be a treat for someone to be with you. Just give it a chance.
PS: Are you feeling guilty because society frowns upon fat women, or is it some other reason?
2007-02-11 12:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-11-03 04:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the fetish itself is wrong but since you are troubled by it maybe seeing a therapist would be good for you because now the fetish is consuming you
2007-02-15 10:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by help:) 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋