If im not sure im in luv in the begging of a realtionship does it mean i wont love her at all???
i met this girl.i asked her out and she said yes.and when we txt everytime she has to go she says luv ya bye.i say luv you too.but im not sure its love am i too young to understand love or am i truly not in luv???and if it isnt can my feelings grow.i want to love her(not in sick way lol not yet 2 young)but im positive i have a huge crush really big but im not sure if its love.i want it to be love. and how do i know if she luvs me i can tell she does but im not sure bout this...real answers this is very serious no answer like wow u have a cell phone please real answers...its very important to me.oh and i dont get butterflies but i always feel like i want to...and i feel i can be honest and open with her...and we dont talk 24/7 but we talk when we can and we luv to have fun and make jokes.
2007-02-11 10:57:46 · 11 answers · asked by ray r. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might have really do have strong feelings for her, love grows on that feelings. So if you don't love her yet, you problaby will. I think she feels the same you feel about her :)
2007-02-11 11:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think it can be love, just dont rush it. In my option u'll c it's love when ur older, me, i felt n love but i'm too young but were still friends and everthing but it's not serious, were waiting a bit, we also didnt talk 24/7 but we talked when we could, it wasnt constant but it lated a year n a half, were still n a good relationship, "Friends" but we both decided 2 take a break and when we were both ready we'd go back 2 gether.. If it's ment 2 b, and it'll b right 4 u as well, just wait a bit longer and c what happens.
2007-02-11 11:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by alainec_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyya there!
well hmmmm
i dont think that you love her...
first youre too young to love someone and second when you have a girlfriend and yo are 11 there are not loads of things that you can do together...
i mean you can go out watch movies, have fun eith her and maybe kiss, but you cant go further than that after a while...
i think you shouldnt worry about relationships now that you are 11 only...its really too early...
And i think that you can start a relationship with this girl but you will have to be together for a really long time so that you can tell if you love her or not because love is more than having fun or kissing ...
you need to feel that you are addicted to that person, you need to feel that you cant imagine yr life without having that person....and you need to feel that you really want to make that person happy and if you feel these things after a couple of months/years then you can say you love her
Have fun when youre still young!
Enjoy!
2007-02-11 11:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Neacsu v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people do not "love" someone right at first. Yeah they have a crush that makes the go after that surten person... but as for love when you are you will know it. its a feeling like no other. Don't worry about it now... What i think is crazy is you see kids today dating and all of them are saying "i Love you" when they hang up the phone.. kids today just throw that word around WAY to much, and have no CLUe what it means.
2007-02-11 11:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it one day at a time...you'll know you love her when you would die for her(so to speak) take things slow and when you do fall in love you will know. You won't be able to be away from her you'll miss her too much when you are. She'll be on your mind 24/7 and you will want to do practically anything to make her happy. And if her feelings are love then she should be the same way for you.
2007-02-11 11:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm on the comparable top concern. my bf is older than me purely for a month, and we've been at the same time for a month. i easily like him too, yet I,(such as you), am terrified of ways he will take it if i tell him i like him, cuz i understand i luv him. I merely have not got the middle to tell him. If I have been you, i could merely bypass at the instant to her, and tell her u love her, considering that's wat i could want my bf to do. in case you tell her u love her, she'll experience greater advantageous, and you adult adult males will show yourselves greater truthfully. yet first of all, be certain u extremely love her.
2016-10-01 23:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you imagine waking up next to her, with bad breath and rollers, and kissing her passionately? If you can't imagine still loving her at her worst, then you're likely not in love, but in heat.
2007-02-11 11:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Venita Peyton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 11 so no u dont love her u just like her...concentrate on other things not love
2007-02-11 11:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you got to decide
if its love or obession.
if you are up to do anything for her
your in love
if you can risk your self for her
yout in love
if u cant do both things for her
its an obession or lust.
2007-02-11 11:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking us if you love her than obviously you don't
2007-02-11 11:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋