acts like a spoiled brat.. bosses you around... never compliments you, and when she looks at you, its only to critize your dressing habits...
O and im a middle child??
2007-02-11 10:55:37 · 10 answers · asked by iyikka14 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow Welcome to the Middle CHild Club i know how you feel its like you will never be good enough in her eyes and she will always get more attention from family and boys and she always puts you down and it suck big time
well in the last couple of months me and my older sister have gotten closer but its only because she moved out of the house and live with friends
eventually [i know it sounds silly] you will get along
and i know what you are thinking that no it will never
happen but that is what i said as well
and slowly but surely it will work because one day she will need you
i aslo see my best friends as my sisters because none of my family members were ever there for me ...
2007-02-11 11:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you, because it is very hard to live with a sister, such as yours, I was the Fourth child when I was Born, and my Mother for as long as I can remember, would always criticized me and got hit on the head or my body because my Mother believed my older sister that I had said a bad word or had hit her or any other reason she would use against me. But I had always thought that someday my time would come, and that one day I would be happy and be free, of all the abuse I had endured. I got married to a good man that provided me with a good life with him, and my sister got Married to a lowlife which he eventually left her. What I can tell you in your case is have a long talk with your sister, and explain to her that you Love her, and that if she only would, examine her thoughts and be in your place for a while to see how all the abuse is affecting the relationship you both have as sisters. Let's hope that all goes well with you and her, if you do decide to have a talk with your sister. Good Luck.
2007-02-11 19:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a middle child too! and i know what you mean i have an older sister too. at first when we were younger she was always like that and i hated it!! but then as time progresses we got closer and now we rarely fight, oh im 14 and my sister is almost 18. just give it some time and show her that what she does doesnt bother you ....that will drive her crazy trust me!! good luck
2007-02-11 19:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could of guessed that you were a middle child...blow her off! Don't take anymore from her, turn the tables and boss her around a bit, critisize her, and when she gets mad tell her what goes around comes around....
2007-02-11 19:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get off your back, that you will not do anything she says. Tell her she's nothing special so she should stop critisizing you. You don't want to hear your faults, so explain to her you need her to stop or you will completely shut her out of your life.
2007-02-11 19:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mollster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All siblings fight you both will grow out of it some day but did you ever consider that she is jealous of you.lol
2007-02-11 19:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore her and let her know why you are ignoring her, if she asks. Also remember not to be like her when you get to her age.
2007-02-11 19:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dorth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to back off, she's not your role model.
2007-02-11 19:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just jealous. Eat it up ! Just laugh at her and go on with your life.
2007-02-11 19:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by carebear0404882005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well... you dont. just shut her out of your life completly. forget she exsist untill she wants to stop being a bi@@@
2007-02-11 19:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by TNQE H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋