i dated this stupid boy for like 8 months, The biggest mistake of my life. But i think that anybody can admit that they have made a mistake. He is straight up white trash.. i just did not notice it till after i got fed up with his bull sh*t. He droped out his senior year in high school. He works with cars.. painting them w/e. We got into a rally bad wreck and he didn't have insucarence with his car. So he ended up like 20,000 dollars in debt.. They took his driver lic. away from him. I have no idea what was going through my head. Well a long story short.. i'm having his baby next month.. i need to know the rules in tennessee!!.. i want him away from my kid. I don't want child support i want him away. Is there anything i can do.. I wish i could explain ya'llk more about this boy.. he is a player and nasty kid... he drinks all the time.. very verbal abusive.. horrible family... i do not want my kid in this situation i don't care if it sounds unfair to him or not!!! what can i do ?
2007-02-11 10:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by Emmie S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
ok girl.. what i have done wrong in this relationship with my ex boyfriend. I guess i should have never stay around after lie and lie and lie. I guess after that wreck when i got 15 stiches in my forehead because he could not smoke his cig and drive at the same time.. i should have left him. OH WAIT!!! maybe its when i drove him around every where because he didn't have a car? or maybe i messed up when he gave up on his education his senior year and didn't even have enough respect for my mother ( when she already paid for the ged) just to go to the test!!! hmm... or maybe i messed up when you put his whole family together and they only have a good enough education to work at wal-mart. O wait.. or maybe it was when his daddy beat him and he left school when was a freshman.. and the most important thing in his dad's life is halo !!! oh wait or maybe it was when my ex told me that he does not want his kids to have more of an education then him.. or wait maybe its the fact that he deals
2007-02-11 13:14:51 · update #1
drugs within his family.. oh this is my favorite one!! when his sister in law told me that if she had a line of coke infront of her she would do it!!! when her 4 year old son was in the other room, oh no wait it gets better!! maybe it was when my ex's mother told me that she did not teach her son to lie to girls as well as she wants him to...
I realize that i have made a mistake, and i have to deal with it every morning i wake up and go to high school ( thats right i am a senior) and yes i am graduating! and i'm going to a community college around here .. and will be attending nursing school.
so for you want to get up on that high horse you were on... why don't you see the picture for what it is not what YOU thought it was... my son would never think that... and if my ex got his life together he would be more than welcome to be in his life... but i will never let my ex bf have my child around drugs,lies, or have the boys that he chills with. Excuse me 4 wnting sm better 4 hm
2007-02-11 13:15:27 · update #2
You know you are just mean. He is as much a part of this babies life as yours. He is young and deserves a chance to be a dad if he wants to. Your baby will grow up and want to know where is dad- what are you going to say - Sorry honey mommy is a ***** and told him he cant be a part of your life because he is young and wild. WHATEVER! By the way it does not matter what the rest of the story is in detail why not tell us about you and what you have done wrong to. Always 2 sides to a story.
2007-02-11 11:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I have had this sittuation...i moved. And the father is still full of troubles, and not at all progressing as a person.
God is the giver of life, the one that beats hearts. He is a father to the fatherless.
HE has provided for me and my children miraculously...it really is only getting better. I have had good male role models. My children are wiser than their dad. We have moved on. Some fathers are so foolish that they de-thrown them selves from the seat that they would have in the family. So you move on.
2007-02-11 12:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mark My Words 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do tput his nam on the birth crt tell athoritysits not his and you dot kno who th dddy was t was a one night stand andyou evo say the3 gu agin h real faher mea whie will hv to com outof pocket with around 1600 for a dna test if h wants to prve its is kid long ith coucost togeta judge to rde you to have the baby tested bcose your nt ging to vollentear.Also our going to go ge a retaning order and sight all th errable thins he does and how his behavrs scare the livng pop ut of you and that your in fear for our and yor babys safty.THAt shuld do it.good luck
2007-02-11 18:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by christine h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can only imagine the child may be saying, "I have really stupid parents. What are my rights?" Would you consider adoption, since it took you nearly 8 months to realize that you were party to another 'stupid' person?
2007-02-11 11:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Venita Peyton 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah, dont put his name on the birth certificate, you probably aren't going to get child support from him anyway. just put "father unknown" or make up a name.......
2007-02-13 08:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Cornell is Hot! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
file for sole custody of the child and see if he'll sign his rights to the child to you
2007-02-11 11:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
say you do not know the father on the certificate and tell him it is not his
2007-02-11 11:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋