Is it seriously a big deal? I meet a guy who I thought I really was not going to be interested in ... I said I was 25 ... when I am really 5 years younger.... well he's 32... And "low and behold" I really like him... and we have been spending time together.... what on earth should I do or say? Will he care?
2007-02-11 10:44:12 · 10 answers · asked by p&glove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more details... Is this something I can do on the phone...email..a text ???? Or does it really have to be in person...???
2007-02-11 11:19:40 · update #1
just tell him. if he cares then give him time and if he still cares then he doesnt want you enough anyways. if he changes his mind and says he doesnt care then it wont be a problem anymore.
2007-02-11 10:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this situation, guys lie about their age all the time; his point is well-taken, as it wasn't a malicious deception--he simply liked you, didn't want to lose you, and hoped once you sufficiently liked him it would no longer matter; is he "technically wrong", probably, but i wouldn't rule him out just because of the age deceit, but the 12 yr difference could mean various practical issues that you might not want..as to "work", depends what you mean--you can enjoy company for a certain amount of time, but i doubt this is the guy you'll be with 5 years from now..
if i was you....i would really be honest with him and tell him the truth because later on it could hurt you at the end if he finds out....good luck.
2007-02-11 10:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanette M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you lie to begin with? If I were him, I would question your integrity. It would bother me that someone would lie about something that really isn't that big-a-deal in the first place.
You have to tell him....I am sure, like most men, he wont mind you being so young>
2007-02-11 10:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably...you weren't upfront and honest with him from the beginning, so yes he may have a problem with that. He may also have a problem with the age difference between you two. You should tell him the truth and hope for the best...
2007-02-11 10:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by irishmomof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will care that u lied to him. but if u really like him like u say u do u have to sit down and tell him the truth.
2007-02-11 10:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by petite_laydi19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to him with sad puppy eyes and say "hey jive playa, just wanted to tell you I think yo sexy and everything but im only 20, but I still know how to get my freak on". It will cheer him up cuz every one knows young chicks are the best in bed.
2007-02-11 10:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by johnny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when ur birthday comes say , "please come to my 21 b-day"?
then, he will be confused and say, i thought u were 25! But then just say back, "oops, really? my mistake, probably wasn't really thinking because you were so cute!" it should work!
good luck!:-)
2007-02-11 10:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it really bothers you...why not tell him the TRUTH?
2007-02-11 10:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since your still legal... it shouldnt be THAT big of a problem
2007-02-11 10:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wont care
2007-02-11 10:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋