okay. so. i like this guy and he likes me. and i know for sure because he told me and we always talk and stuff. but the only thing that is holding us back is that he doesnt want a girlfriend right at this moment. so i suggested that we start hanging out and see how it goes and he said that that would be a good idea. but i dont want to lose him but what should i do? to make him realize that im a good idea?!
2007-02-11 10:40:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well just hand around him as much as possible and when the boy grows up he will see you there and bingo your his gf. SO be patient and try no to be too pussy. Or else you will lose him.
2007-02-11 10:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self if you do try to be something your not it will come out eventually Im sure you want him to love you for you and think it is a good idea for you both to be friends first dont you. You need time to get to know him better to and if and when you do date it will bring you closer togeather. lol
2007-02-11 18:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him you are worthy. Be flexible with him; if he suggests something to do, go for it even if you don't like it. Be giving; treat him to dinner or lunch. Be the one to suggest a date because that would really show him you know how to have a good time.
2007-02-11 18:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't rush him, yet at the same time
don't be too chummy as if he does decide he wants a
girlfriend you would be the one he would talk to about
his relationship - that yours would be more platonic.
You could explain to him how you feel and that you hope
that he may open up to the idea.
2007-02-11 18:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't rush him, if he doesn't want a girlfriend right now then you might scare him off if you keep asking him about it. Just be friends with him for a while and if he really likes you then he will ask you out in his own time.
Good luck!
2007-02-11 18:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Brittney U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly...You can't make someone realize your the "One"... Some people recognized the light but they can't handle the glare....I've been in this same situation and it took him a year and a half to realize he loves me...Girlie...Ya got to move on...I know it sucks...don't throw the idea of him away, but let him know your not gonna be around forever...Best of luck to ya...
2007-02-11 18:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kamaria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should respect his idea and for now just be his friend maybe there is something more to it. Don't pressure him though, he'll think that your are obsessed and he will probably get annoyed so just let things flow between you guys
2007-02-11 18:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and relax you may realize he is not a good idea once you get to know him. that's what dating is for to find out what you like and don't like. good luck and take your time.
2007-02-11 18:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him what he would be missing out on if he lose's u just be straight up wit him
2007-02-11 18:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by omg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever a guy tells me he likes me but dosnt wont a relastionship it often means he just wonts sex
2007-02-11 18:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by dawnmercedas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋