by other women and he denies it. I'm not sure if he likes the attention or if he actually likes the women. I have tried to discuss this with him and he says he loves me and only wants me , but how will I know if he is lying to me?
2007-02-11 10:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by it_is_what_it_is 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A relationship is about trust and if there is no trust in your relationship, then why even be in that relationship? Trust is love. Remember that, trust is also the key to your relationship, sooner or later, you will know that he is lying, he'll be acting all weird and making up excuses.
2007-02-11 10:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's where the trust factor comes in. . .
I know where you're coming from, I've been there myself.
Whenever a girl is flirting with my boyfriend, he always denies it. I've come to the point where I truly believe he doesn't think they're flirting. Don't ask why! I think we, as girls, tend to know what the other girls are like and that's why we see it more clearly than they do.
But anyway, all you can do is bring it to your boyfriend's attention that this is really making you uncomfortable. This way he will know how you feel and mentally try to avoid situations that cause the discomfort for you.
Meanwhile. . .trust is a big thing in a relationship. You should trust him until you have a real reason not to. Think about it, he doesn't "have" to be with you. . . .he's with you because he has chosen to be, and if he wanted to be with those other girls . . .he could be. . . but he's not, he's with you.
2007-02-11 10:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by curiousgb25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you'd have to be worried is if he's flirting back. I little flirtation is good for everyone, but if he's putting his full game on and taking numbers then you should be worried. But if he just politely accepts the compliments and leaves it alone then why worry? You should be proud that you snagged such a good-looking guy - everyone wants him and you got him! Girls also probably flirt with him because he acts uninterested - girls like the mystery and challenge. Or, there is a pattern of women liking other women's man - if they know he has a gf that sparks something too. I would believe him unless he gives you a reason not to.
2007-02-11 10:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by *Photo-op* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't, but a relationship is built on trust. If you can't trust each other, is there even a point for staying in the relationship? If he says he only wants you, believe him until his actions tell you otherwise. If you're really feeling insecure, just keep an eye on him and try catching him in the act, if he really is liking the attention.
2007-02-11 10:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so insecure. Wouldn't it really suck if no one thought your man was attractive? No one looked at him, in fact no one paid any attention to him because he was so unattractive...
Quit freaking out! If you really look at it with a different light, you will see my point. Plus, if you can't trust him, don't be with him. Why even ask if he is flirted with or hit on? What do you care if other girls notice the fabulous things about your sweetie that you do? Is it not a compliment to you? If your man is really the man for you, he won't even flinch at the adorations. He's already found the apple of his eye.
2007-02-11 10:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by shelbysmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be just as clueless as some of the guys I know. Most guys are stupid that way. When you see them doing that grab him and kiss him. Or you could just take the customer yourself. If he really is lying to you then you should have a lay all the cards on the table talk. You should know if he is thinking of other girls.
2007-02-11 10:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Yay me!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun its just jealousy everyone feels it he may honestly not notice that he is being hit on . Honey guys can't take hints for their life! LOL! so just continue to let him know that it bothers you and you would like for him to pay more attention to his reactions of when it does happen! I'm sure he loves you!
2007-02-11 10:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by oprah08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the most important factor in any relationship. you could see for yourself if he does really ineterested in any of the girl. say, if you have date and cancel it all of a sudden. or receive a call then suddenly excuse himself to talk in private. stuff like that... if you know him well, any changes might be a clue.
2007-02-11 10:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always observe him when he's getting hit on, to see if he responds to the flirts. You should observe even what he says.
2007-02-11 10:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold up babygurl ... dont blame slutty girls hittin on random dudes on him ... some hos is just like that ... and the next time a girl come up to him roc her in tha chin ... if it bothers that bad .... it isnt like hes flirting back right ??
2007-02-11 10:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ty Doyal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋