ok im asking a girl out for the first time but i dont know wat to say if she says yes can someone help me out?
2007-02-11 10:33:58 · 18 answers · asked by cj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok im asking a girl out for the first time but i dont know wat to say if she says yes can someone help me out?
btw im 14
2007-02-11 10:43:06 · update #1
Just ask her what she'd like to do when you guys go out, or make a suggestion - a movie or something to see or grab a bite to eat. I'm sure she'll jump in and there'll be no problem with the decision or the conversation.
Don't be nervous. Play it cool.
2007-02-11 10:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The main thing Is not to sound desperate. Make It seem like you were going to go to SOMETHING, whatever YOU want to do, anyway. Whether she was coming or not. Make It seem like she can just tag along. This mentality can take you a long way. Email me If you want some more specific help.
2007-02-11 10:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by mattkarkoska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her. Tell her tha you would love to take her out. Ask her what type of things does she like to do, what is her favorite food and then take it from there. There is nothing better than having a guy ask you what you like and then making it happen for you.Thats a big plus
2007-02-11 10:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Meka_Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first find out 2 things does she like you and is she allowed to date if both of those anwsers are a yes then jus t be your self and she will most likely say yes
2007-02-11 10:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by korinne kouture;; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA just get her somewher quiet start a coversation and when the time is right ask her if shes busy and tell her you need her with you
2007-02-11 10:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by jhon d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhhhh!!!!!!!! How cute!! If she says yes, then ask her where she wants to go or where you'll be going , what time you should pick her up, etc. And act excited, but not too excited, that would creep me out.
2007-02-11 10:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Yay me!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be calm about it and mature. All girls love calm and secure boys. and dont sound to wanting and desparete. I have confidence you will do fine. How old r u. Email me back at cudaswim@yahoo.com if you have any ?'s hope i could be any help!!!
2007-02-11 10:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by abbeystripes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like well can i have your number and stuff and then call her and talk and if yall have akward quiet moments then ask if she wants to play the question game [if you dont know what that means you can message me] and just get to know eachother better and ask to go to the movies and stuff like that
2007-02-11 10:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a pretty simple process, really.
You: "Hi girl, I was wondering if you wanted to go to the movies later today (or whenver)"
Girl: "Is this a date, then?"
You: "Yes."
Girl: "Okay then! *Smiles*"
And then you tell her what movie you're going to and what time to be there, etc. And then you eagerly wait for the date!
2007-02-11 10:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LOOK NERVOUS!!! that is the last thing that you want to do.....make sure you know that she likes you...you dont want to have a broken heart.....just say what comes to your head....
2007-02-11 10:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by *Hello* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋