my bf and i have been dating for a few weeks now. he seems great and sll but, all of my friends say he's desprate and would go out with anyone. He wont kiss me either. He was my first kiss and he did it right in front of his ex. when ever i think he's gonna kiss me again, he changed the subject. HELP!!!!
2007-02-11 10:04:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is using you, any guy who won't kiss you, must at some level be repulsed by you.
2007-02-11 10:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to kiss the person you're with and he's not willing to do that, whether he's using or not than you shouldnt'be with him. The fact that he did it in front of his ex shows that maybe that was the only reason he did it. So ou need to end it with him fast before he embarrasses you. Which he will. Don't even bother talking to him. Just end it. Well you know what, ask him why he won't kiss you, if he makes up some lame excuse then end it. Good luck babe!
2007-02-11 10:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is using you, to get back at the old girlfriend. But I am not sure how old you are, so maybe he is taking things slow, but then again, he did kiss you only in front of the EX so it sounds like he used you, so sorry, hope you find the right guy for you!
2007-02-11 10:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your description, it looks like he kissed you to make somebody mad. Don't wait around for another kiss. To use a recent book title "He's just not that into you" or he would be wanting many more kisses. Don't go looking for happiness from somebody else. Make yourself happy, and meet up with someone else that is happy. People that "need" people are not happy. People that choose to be with each other have a much better chance of being happy together. No guarantees in love or life.
2007-02-11 10:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by LuvDylan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it in front of his ex he was probably trying to make her jealous. If you want to kiss your boyfriend ask him to kiss you. You have to be open enough to talk to him about these things or that means that you are not communicating with him and your relationship will fall apart. Talk to him, ease your mind and be happy, if he is using you, you will no this shortly because this is not something that he can hide from you. Take care Heather
2007-02-11 10:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he's using u because if after the first week not even the first week if after the first few days he hasnt kissed u than he is using becuz he a boyfriend should want to kiss u every time that he sees u... a kiss to say hi n one to say good-bye n one for no reason.....if he cant d that than he is just using u for what reason i dont know
2007-02-11 10:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by lalgita12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's his real problem? kissing is a major factor in a relationship especially when your new to having a boyfriend if he is uninterested in kissing you then it seems he's just not interested in you. Try asking him how he feels towards you & factor in how long he has been broken up with his ex he may have wanted her to get jealous. Unless he's gay.
2007-02-11 10:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he get the reaction from his X he expected or wanted...probably not and he's still trying to, you'll be wise to find someone else who doesn't have this problem, you don't need to be in the middle of his 'revenge' towards his x...he can't possibly be all that to convince you that you don't deserve better. You do...so go and find someone who treats you for you because they want to hang out with you the person, not you the 'make her jealous' stand in. This other guy can fend for himself.
2007-02-11 10:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe..give it some time before getting intimate with him...the kis in front of his ex was just 2make her jealous...cool it down 4a few weeks and let him make the 1st move.
2007-02-11 10:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by shaun_stace 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont want to sound bad or anythin but he cud be because he kissed you in front of his ex and now he wont xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxgood luck on thatxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-02-11 10:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by blond 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋