I'm 14, have a strong resentment towards my parents, because they were too harsh when I made some mistakes. It's been so for more than a year. They tried to make up, say today they are proud of me, but I kept my resentment. Can this change? Where can this situation lead us?
2007-02-11 09:51:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Anger is a very toxic feeling. It doesn't destroy the people that you are directing it at. Honey, it destroys you. It eats up your soul and does nothing for growing into a kind, loving person. I know that you have had people telling you that all parents make mistakes. It was wonderful that your parents recognized their mistake, but now you are the one making a mistake. It's a lesson that you will find important when you will be dealing with your own angry teenager later in life. Do you know how warm and comfortable you feel when your family is working together as a unit? Must be a reason you don't want to be a part of your family--think about it. Only you can fix this situation, because you are the one controlling your anger.
2007-02-11 10:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will lead to u becoming a very unhappy negative angry person.U will look back and thank them for the way they disciplined u.
2007-02-11 10:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all has happened to me except it was only toward my mum. What I do to try to cool down is draw and write down what I hate about her and then rip it all up. Sometimes she doesn't care about me being mad so I talk to my dad. It's much better to talk to him then her.
2007-02-11 10:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋