2007-02-11 09:45:55 · 11 answers · asked by robin h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell them. Now talking the talk is not waht they are going to want to see. You better be stable enough to walk that walk. Mo.
2007-02-11 09:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've had problems with this before in the past. That's probably not a good idea to start drinking again. What for? I have so much fun with friends when we're not drinking. Most likely, you'll end up hurting the person you want to tell. But if i were you, i wouldn't even bother starting to drink again.
But if you must. the only way is to come right out and tell them. Do not let them find out from someone else or catch you doing it.
2007-02-11 17:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently there is a drinking problem, possibly alcoholism here, so you can tell your "loved one" all day long that the drinking won't get out of hand but if it was out of hand in the past, the chances are HIGH it'll get out of hand again.
Alcoholism is a disease...it's not something you can just decide won't get out of hand again.
If you decide to drink, and your drinking has caused problems in the past, you may be jeapordizing your relationship with your "loved one". You may have to decide which is more important, the booze or the person.
If you choose the booze, then the issue is already out of hand.
2007-02-11 17:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the problems in your relationship were caused by your drinking then you need to let your loved one make the decision on whether or not they want to stay with you.
If you are choosing drinking over maintaining a stable relationship then you need to let that person go. Are you an alcoholic? Because if so you can get help.
It's up to you.
2007-02-11 17:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by TheOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea right. I have heard this one before. If you are an alcoholic, then One drink is too much, and a thousand is not enough. Stay off the sauce. You quit for a reason. Just remember what those reasons are. Would it mean loosing your loved one? Leave it alone, and carry on with your life SOBER
2007-02-11 17:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't if you have had alcohol problems in the past and quit drinking because of them and start again the same issues will come back to haunt you so don't start again.talk to someone from AA they will work with you.Drinking solves nothing it just creates more problems..
2007-02-11 17:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats something you have to do on your own, there is no right/easy way of going about telling someone that you want to drink again.
2007-02-11 17:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by jinxygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to throw away everything? It will get out of hand and you know it. Don't start!!! It'll be worth it.
2007-02-11 17:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kathy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once an addict, always an addict, there is no way to keep it from getting out of hand if you are a true addict.....
2007-02-11 17:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At a bar.
2007-02-11 17:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋