Is staying with the father of ur child wrong when u both cheat on 1 another?

Answer 1

It depends if you were both happy cheating on one another.

I think staying with someone just because you are the parents is silly I believe two happy homes are better then one miserable

Answer 2

I think you need to be asking what's in the best interests of your child here rather than what's right for you or your child's father. If you continue with this relationship it will [if it hasn't already] cause some quite serious issues next time you try to have an on-going relationship with someone else...trust issues will raise there ugly heads...but the effect it will have on your child to witness a kind of relationship that is based on lying & cheating will have far reaching consequences well into your childs future & even while they're growing up....for example I grew up without a father figure & well into my 30's I still didn't see the importance of having a father in my life...as I'd grown up without one & couldn't see that it had done me any harm, In reality how the hell could I know whether it did me any harm when I hadn't anything to compare my up-bringing to....that belief in turn made me feel that having a child out of a settled relationship would do my child no harm either.....I now realise that way of thinking was due to my up-bringing, I realise now that a child indeed needs 2 parents...they don't have to be living together but they do need to be present in the childs life...in a good way, not as a bad example...so please think carefully about the kind of things you allow your child to be exposed to while their minds are forming...it makes all the difference to their point of view as an adult & to what they continue to pass on to their children.
Good luck & be happy ♥

Answer 3

I suppose it depends on the circomstances and finances etc. However, why would you want to live in a relationship where you are both unhappy? Wouldn't it make more sense to separate and have a happier life. It doesn't mean that you can't be friends and promise not to degrade each other for the child's sake. Call the childrens aide and ask them how you can make a separations go a little more smoother for your child. They are excited to speak to parents who really care and love their children. the decision is yours, but you have to stop and think about what it is that you are really teaching your child in this circumstance. Take care Heather

Answer 4

Cheating is wrong...staying with your partner when both of you are cheating is just stupid. What's the point? You have both shown each other that you desire to be with other people and have no respect for each other or the relationship you share (or shared).

Go your separate ways so you can have sex with whomever you want and not build up all the bad karma...you've both apparently got enough to work off as it is.

Answer 5

YES, why bother being together if you both refuse to honor your marriage vows? This will only teach your children to follow in your footsteps and they will do the same thing to their spouses when they grow older.

It never pays to grow up in a dysfunctional household. Sounds to me like you are only in this marriage because of the kids. If that's the case you both need to stop being selfish, honor your marriage vows, go to counseling and try to save your marriage and be FAITHFUL to each other.

Neither one of you can possibly be happy in this type of relationship. There is no love, no respect and no trust.

Besides, what if you or your spouse end up bringing back some sort of STD or even AIDS because of your cheating? You both have a lot to think about becaus in this case, "for the sake" of the children just does not cut it.

There is NO excuse for Adultry no matter how justified you both "think" you are doing it.

Answer 6

Um I would say Yes.. if There is any fighting Going On in the home. or Whatnot your child can sense that And its wrong To Put A Child through That And When they Get Older and Understand What is going on That will Scar him for Life

Answer 7

Depends on what affect it has on the child. If you are openly cheating in front of your child than I think it is wrong but if you are doing it away from your child and you are both happy to have an open relationship than go ahead.

Answer 8

Of course it is. You're going to hurt the child as well, if you haven't already. You both need to move on with your lives. It's obviously convienent for the both of you to live like this, but it doesn't make it right. Both of you need to find someone special to be in your lives. What you're doing now is wrong.

Answer 9

Yes

Answer 10

yes you both are wrong and you might as well end it because you don't need to do this in front of your child...this child derserve to be thaught how to live life the right way...and not by cheating threw it.