help before i go insane! I think i am going to run away...?

Question

I am about to run away from home, once i get all of my money out of my bank and then get some more. Anyways, The reason i want to is because of my family. My mom is always studying for massage school, or working, or taking care of my g-pa. She always smokes and drinks, and she never wakes me up on time for school either! I tried to talk 2 her about 1000 times but she dosent listen! My dad is always working, or yeling at me for some dumb reason (they dont get why i get bad grades..) my sister is fine but sometimes she can be a royal pain (shes 16) And my school.. UGG i hate it, everyone is so preppy and so sneeky, i am in the 7th grade and i really try hard but i apparently "dont try hard enough" and i just cant take it anymore! I try to talk to my parents about how upset i am with life, and teachers to help me out with my grades, no one cares. My friends ( which i dont have alot of) are sometimes there for me... PLEASE HELP BEFORE I MAKE A HUGE MISTAKE! thanks...

Answer 1

You said it yourself...it's a huge mistake but if you are still bent on running away, you'll find out for yourself why your parents are so involved with work. At least you'll be more understanding when you move back home.

Answer 2

Your mom is doing something to make your family life better by going to school, working, and taking care of an eldery parent? She sounds like she works her *** off and is probably exhausted. Wake yourself up for school and give her a break, if you're old enough to think you can take care of yourself by running away, then start by being responsible and getting yourself out of bed first and not relying on your mom to do it for you. Your dad is ALWAYS working, probably because you and your family has a bad habit of needing to eat and needing clothes. All brothers and sisters are a pain, this is true, but you're part of the group too. You say people don't care, that's true also, what makes you think they'll care more if you run away? They won't. Stick where you are get through school and help your family because they sound like they could use some from you.

Answer 3

There are much better solutions to your problems than running away...which may only make them worse, or lead to your death. Please seek help thru your school, the Child Protective Services, or any hot line of your choice. You are still young, and take so very much for granted, having no idea of how hard it is out in the real world. Be grateful you even have a house to live in, "geeky" clothes--not nearly as nice as the snobs have, but they keep you warm--and I assume you get enough to eat daily. Run away, and these things can no longer be taken for granted, but fought for.
I know life seems so very rough, and unfair at times, but running from it does not make it go away. (I was young once too, but maybe your parents are so wrapped up in their own lives to remember how it is at your age!) You sound like you need lots of attention, and want key things in your life to change, but leaving home in the 7th grade will only create changes for the worse, though it will get you lots of attention--for awhile. The best thing to remember is to try your best at whatever you do, and know that this too shall pass.

Answer 4

Please don't run away...just be patient because it is your hormones that are making you feel this way. Our world is not ready to let you be in charge of your own person at 14 yrs old, but your body is more than ready to bloom and have children. 14 years old was the worst time in my life....so please understand that it will get better. You can't survive alone. You need your family, not just for support but for many more reasons that won't make any sense to you right now. Find something you like to do... and meet people that like to do that too. You will feel better about yourself and then you will feel better about your family. Don't expect your family to be perfect. They are not and you are just setting yourself up for disappointment when you expect them to be perfect... and give the same advice to your parents, as they should not expect you to be perfect. Love, forgive and do unto others as you would have them do to you....and get a life... read, get into sports, don't just depend on friends to fill your life. Get active in something... music, dancing, write poems, let your inner soul be expressed. You are in a world that will tear you appart if you go it alone right now. Appreciate your family that provides you with food and shelter daily. Get a job if nothing else... or volunteer. Stop feeling sorry or frustrated. You make your own reality. If you want to be happy... then get busy making yourself happy. Don't expect your parents to do it for you. This is one of the first realities that most adults cannot accept. Good luck. Life is a journey and the one with the most gold at the end is not always the winner.

Answer 5

go ahead.run away if you wanna.but if your mom calls the Police on you for a Runaway,you have a good chance of going to jail.I've been in the position you are in.Whenever I am P.O'ed at my family,i AWLAYS wanna run away.but then i think about how i may not even survive and how i can have a run-in with the law.And if u runaway,then u might even be desperate for money,which can turn u into a Prostitute,which can get u arrested for 2 charges[runaway,and prostitution] but like,i now see EVERY blessing of mine clearly.i mean yeah,i may get in a fight w/my sister everyday,i may be annoyed by my brother,i may be disgusted to find out what my dad looks at on the computer,and i may only have my mom there to help me,but EVERY SINGLE experience through life make you a stronger person.EVERY fight you've been in,EVERY name you've been called,EVERY single thing you have witnessed throughout life makes you a fighter and a stronger person.So just learn from those things and deal with it until your old enough to move out.

Answer 6

i comprehend precisely the way you sense.. i became in that situation even as i became your age or perhaps youthful... it began even as i turned right into a toddler. My mum and dad weren't a contented couple because it became an prepared marriage... besides, sorry i'm getting off topic yet my kin remains like that. that's what I do: on each occasion they commence arguing, I placed on some headphones and track each little thing out. that's what I realized from the abusive kin: getting in touch will purely damage you. stay out of the arguments. My dad is an same way as your dad except that my dad beat me and that i actually did run away some situations and in basic terms about were given fascinated about prostitution (you do not choose this happening to you). trust me, operating away will deliver about a depressing existence on the streets. If there is violence, discover someone that you'll be able to stay with quickly and get your mum and dad to hunt marriage counseling. you do not prefer to be in an section the position you're depressing and your existence is at stake. call the police purely in existence threatening situations. One time my mom observed as the police because my father brutally beat her. He became put in penitentiary and my mom and that i had no earnings.... My mom and that i suffered and my mom ended up going back to my dad...

Answer 7

Please don't run away. I don't think this will help anything. You should find a good church youth group that is loving and supportive. There are people who do care about you and that can help. Do you have any relatives such as aunts or uncles or cousins? Prayer really does help also. If you don't have a relationship with God you need to. Find a good word based church that has a good youth group.

Answer 8

First take If your mom & dad arn
t taking good care of you the move in witha diff relitve suck as (aunts, uncles, older brothers and sisters etc) If you don't your have relitves near bye and can't stand what you parents are doing then ask one of htem if oyu can talk to them about what it is thats on your mind and if you can't talk to them talk to oyur sister and about the grades think of why you arn't getting good grades and think of a way to solve it whatever subject it is go to your teacher and ask them if they could help oyu with it hope tis helps

Answer 9

That would be a huge mistake u cant run away from your problems. Your hormones r just running rampant it take time to adjust.I think your taking this way too far. Find things that u can do that u find relaxing.

Answer 10

dont run away, talk to a school counsler, or someone elses parents, if the situation doesnt get better, u can talk to the police, they have things that will help u out, and resources that with help. if u have anymore problems, im me on yahoo messenger, i love talking with anyone who has problems. i had the same as u