2007-02-11 09:12:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
i think you should. you have missed so much of her life and it is important that you get back into it in anyway that you can. i am sure you will be able to have a lot of good times together and it is never too late to catch up. hope this works out for you. good luck.
2007-02-11 09:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am quite certain that at 6 years old she was not the one to leave the relationship.
Since I have been in her shoes I will strongly encourage you to think about the decision to re-enter this child's life long and hard. Go talk to a professional and make sure that you are healthy emotionally and psychologically.
If you are not willing AND able to commit to this child and be everything that SHE needs in a father, then do her a favor and leave her be. You can do more damage by dodging in and out of her life than by just staying away if you are not ready to be all that she needs.....especially since she is a young teenager.
It's not going to be easy for you. I am sure that there are a lot of unresolved feelings involved on both sides. I will keep both of you in my prayers and hope that both of you are able to grow into the places where you need to be.
2007-02-12 02:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon what you mean by reconnect? If you mean see her again and have a relationship with her I would say that it all depends on you. At six years old I don't think she walked out of your life. Do you love her? And does she know that you love her and want to see her. It is up to you to mend the damage done and reasure her.
2007-02-11 17:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by bobblehead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it depends on th situation ! I do not have enough to go on here did you give her away or was it something else? I know it is hard to forgive your mother when she is not with you i am still trying to forgive my mother and it was 40 years ago because you keep blaming yourself and you need to answer all her questions honestly because my mother STILL hasn't told me why she gave me up !!She only took me back when she needed help with the other children and the sad part is that i will go to my grave never knowing why!! God Bless &Good luck!!
2007-02-11 17:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by linda bug 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is hard one.If u have stay intouched with her and sent her cards and gifts at birthdays and Xmas then yes.If u haven't then no.Your going to have a very angry teenager.So it's up to u on what to do.
2007-02-11 17:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should make the first move to contact with her. You have missed a big part of her life and Im sure she would love to have you in her life.
2007-02-11 17:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe send her a birthday present or some money for her b-day. then you call her so she can have SOME sensitivity towards you!
2007-02-11 22:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by air_walk192 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋