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I'm paranoid he's found someone else, he's completely lost interest in me.

2007-02-11 09:08:49 · 28 answers · asked by Toni H 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

28 answers

Maybe your lips are too wet.

2007-02-11 09:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0 0

... could be soooo many reasons... how long have you been together? If a long while then it might just be complacency.... do you pester him or remind him that he hasn't kissed you for a while?.... could be pressure and self consciousness..... without being cruel (please don't take offence) do you have any mouth problems? you may just (and please don't become paranoid) have a little bad breath from time to time.... are you close in other ways? do you cuddle? is he generally distant? is he having personal problems he isn't talking about...work money etc?
Don't jump to instant conclusions... try to talk to him at a calm time but don't pester and accuse... maybe if you take the lead and start to kiss him and cuddle more often...hopefully you can sort it out... good luck

2007-02-11 17:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by ladybuglucyo 1 · 1 0

I can only speak from my own experience, but my ex didn't want to kiss me as much because he was no longer in love with me. After we broke up, he said that kissing me made him feel bad as he didn't want to be getting pleasure from someone he was hurting.
What he said might have been a load of crap, but in the end it means the same thing: his feelings have changed. If your boyfriend is crazy about you, he would want to kiss you. Simple as that.
Sorry for the depressing answer.

2007-02-11 17:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by anjela w 1 · 1 0

he has found someone else (sorry), BUT he doesn't want to be the bad guy, he wants to upset you so you nag him and pick a fight and then its YOUR fault as he can't take the stress.... be smart just go on like nothing has happened and you don't notice he is being a jerk and he will get so damn frustrated he will end it....BE SMART he wants out let him do it.....it only hurts for a little while you will find someone that digs you and you alone.....

2007-02-11 17:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0 0

Read He's Just Not That into You: The No-excuses Truth to Understanding Guys by Greg Behrendt

2007-02-11 17:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

its a hard one to answer ....... there could be many reasons.... some people just dont like kissing... he may be comfortable with you and not realise he is hurting you.... or he may not be happy in your relationship..... either way you need to get to the bottom of it.....

perhaps you should suggest that you need to talk and tell him honestly whats going on in your head... give him the chance to have a say,...

if the worst hapens and he says he wants out.. then let him go..... if its love he will come back..... its the only sure way to know if somone really loves you... you have to give them the freedom to go .. if they come back then you have them for good.

good luck

2007-02-11 17:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by ANNA G 1 · 0 0

ok im a boi the reason he lost interest in u because ur boring him. give him wat he wants make him love u again. Do something really nice 4 him lik make him dinner wit candle lights and R&B music.and the kissing thing he probably think ur a bad kisser im not sayin ur not.but yea take a guys advice

2007-02-11 17:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by javalava78 1 · 0 0

Well to be honest, after I decided I didn't want to be with my girlfriend anymore, any physical contact repulsed me until I built up the bottle to end the r/ship.
I hope this isn't the case with you but I'm just being honest mate.

2007-02-11 17:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by India 55 5 · 0 1

Perhaps he's grown tired of you, as men are prone to doing. I'm a man, and I get bored of people soon enough and begin to pursue new women. The old ones become repetative so I ignore them.

2007-02-11 17:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

maybe you should by some tic tacs and your fasion might soooooooooooooo out of season omg if your bf dos not come back i am available you prob seen what i look like im the boy at of high school musical zack efron

2007-02-11 17:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Browneyed-girlx 2 · 0 1

Well if that is how you feel why stay with him?Are you's stuck together?Are you two in the middle of an argument or something?Mabe somethings bothering him?

2007-02-11 17:14:08 · answer #11 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0 0

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