How Do I Ask A Girl Out?

Question

When Im shy & afraid of denial.

Answer 1

Dont think about it. If she says no than do you really want to hang out with her anyways their are 3.5 billion woman in the world You WILL get rejected by some but than again their are woman who think you are ABSOLUTELY perfect an everything they could ever want you just have to find them Good luck.

Answer 2

If its quite obvious she feels the same way for you as you feel for her then just man up and do it! Everyone is afraid of denial but you have to think...what if you and this girl could really hit off but the only thing that kept you'll from going to the next level (being more than friends) is because of your fear of denial. Just look at signs that she may give you and determine by those if she feel-n you and if she is then simply ask. If you do it on V-day might even be cute if you ask her to be your valentine for more than just that day!!!

Answer 3

When ever i have asked out a girl i was always 100% confident that they would say yes. A few relationships i didnt even need to ask them out cause we both knew we liked each other and considered eachother gf and bf. But i havent really hada problem with being shy or afraid so im not sure. Probably ask one of her friends if shes into you or just go with your gut feeling. If you guys get alot great and seem to enjoy eachother she wont say no. Just give it a shot. goodluck

Answer 4

dont be afraid of denial for one thing, - i mean "nothing ventured nothing gained" isnt a famous quote for nothing

if you really like a girl, talk to her, a see if you have things in common, and that could lead to better conversations-but to make sure that you want to be more than friends-flirt with her-but not too much

if the girl knows you- im sure she would love go on a date with you

and also- girls sometimes like shy-er guys because they know that they have good intentions :)

good luck!

Answer 5

First off, don't be afraid of denial because it will eventually happen to you and just be nice to the girl, get to know her better, then if you still want to go our with her, ask her out. Just get it over with and everything will turn out fine. Trust me! good luck and follow your heart!!

Answer 6

From a girl's persepctive I say that you try and be h9onest and to the point. At first make interesting small talk and then chnage the subject to her personal life but dont push if she doesnt want to talk about it. once youre talking about that then ask her directly if she could be your girlfriend. If she needs time give it to her but dont jump to conclusions by the way she acts (that could be misleading). Also dont get discouraged if by any chance she says no. Keep in mind that there are plenty of fish in the sea and that she's not the greatest thing on the face of the Earth.

GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 7

look at it logically- if you don't ask her you'll never know if she would have said yes, and if she says no you didn't lose anything because you weren't already dating her.

its the same with numbers if you never ask you'll never get it, if you ask and get turned down you never had her number in the first place so your not losing anything, if anything your actually gaining some manhood by having the balls to ask, plus the experience will help in the future

start talking to her, get to know her and if you still want to take her on a date then ask her if she would like to hang out some time, nice girls will say stuff like i really don't have time or some other excuse (this just means that they are not interested so leave them alone, most girls won't turn you down and try to embarass you, but don't push it), but if the answer is something like yeah i'd like that then either get her number and set it up soon or if your ready set it up right then. final tip- your thoughts control everything, don't think about what she might say, think about what your going to say after she says yes.

Answer 8

You need to get over your fear remeber this is a game of numbers. If you get rejected move onto the next girl that you like if you get rejected move on to the next girl. You will get a girl that says yes I gurantee. This also builds up your ability to ask a girl out and not be so scared. Girls like guys with confidence so don't beat around the bush. If you can't do it now your shyness will stay with you all of your life and you will always have a problem asking girls out!!!

Answer 9

You always ask this question, every week. For some odd reason I still answer you. You at least know why you are afraid. Maybe you should just avoid going out right now as you sound too young and can't handle it. Give yourself time to overcome your mind first.

Answer 10

Hey if ur shy just try it just say in the mirror a couple of times then practice wit ur friend then when ur ready ask her out. and dont worry bout denial there goin 2 b a time when she is goin 2 really lik u then she is goin 2 ask Q then ask u out