2007-02-11 09:05:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she also does it because im always with my bf,and she dnt like him.But she never says i cant go with him.so she let me go with him..than i get a call 4rom her saying not to come bck home..idk where to go but with my bf..he and his family will let me stay at his house but i dnt want to get him in trouble of my mom calls the cops because im under age and hes 19....and well i dnt want to call the police, becase i dnt want to b out in foster care.so wat do i do??
i need advice....
2007-02-11 09:21:07 · update #1
You won't be put in foster care, don't worry. Children are only put into foster care if they are in extremely bad situations of physical or drug abuse. You really need to call Child Protective Services when she tries to kick you out to have CPS come out to your house. They will make your mother straighten out. If she tries to kick you out of your house, it is a CRIME, so she will be given a warning. I can tell you from my experience working in the field, she will likely straighten up and you won't have any more problems if you get CPS involved. Also, once you have it on record that she is throwing you out (you are not runnign away), they will not believe her the next time she tries to call the cops and say you are a run away. Besides, I don't know what city you live in, but most police departments do not bother to worry about the run away cases...it is just a little too low on their priority list.
2007-02-11 09:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this boyfriend is more important than family? Even if your Mom is seriously messed up she has your interests at heart. Its only a BF issue? Well she has been through a lot and maybe knows something. Lose family, hearth and home for a 19 year old dude who at that age really has no idea as to what he is doing in life?
Family is everything... boyfriends come and go. Sure you can call the cops but you are so close to being 18 so how is this all going to go soon? No house, legally kicked out and a boyfriend who really doesn't have the resources to set up a house for you. Bet he won't want you then.
Talk to your Mom and comply with some things. I bet she will relax a bit. Otherwise stay on the road you are on and have to pay for it later.
2007-02-11 09:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had extra effective do a touch quickly KISSING UP! you quite prefer to inform your mum and dad that you'll structure up, and also you're sorry for each little thing you've done, and also you may also help around the abode...and then surely do it. (Even some tears may help.) criminal or not, your doorstep-mom does not ought to stay with a touch b a s t a - - in her abode. She is especially a lot the boss now, and one way or the different, I promise you, she receives you out of that abode!!! do not assume the regulation that could also help you. you receive your self into this, now you extra effective get your self out, or you'd be status on a nook wondering what the hell occurred.
2016-11-27 01:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by iatarola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say u need to have a good hard look it yourself wat irratating things r u doing that your mum is annoyed with? Do u mouth off to your mother? Do u help around the house? Do u keep your room tidy? Do u do your home work when asked? Do u obey your mother? If not your home life will not improve unless u do.
2007-02-11 09:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know this might sound lame but why don't you go to your local authorities and tell them what is the legally right thing to do. Tell them your circumstances and if you should continue being on your own or go back to your mom. Also make it very clear that you did not run away and if you did you wouldn't be there trying to figure out what to do.
2007-02-11 09:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by MichiganRocks 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she is trying to get your attention that she is the boss. she may want you to realize that that its a tough world and if you get a little taste of it you may have a new found respect . some mother and daughters are so alike that they clash. you and her need to talk not fight through these problems .......if your mom died today how would you really feel. you girls talk it out . good luck
2007-02-11 09:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't know what to do in your situation but i do know one thing and that is that you need to find some better people to look up to because for you mom to do this to you is really immature. hope things work out for you. good luck.
2007-02-11 09:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time she kicks you out, call the police, she can't kick her minor child out. you are her responsibility.
2007-02-11 09:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then you are pretty screwed. Find some better adults in your life.
2007-02-11 09:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by insipid.enculturation 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what if??
honestly i wouldnt know what to do
2007-02-11 09:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋