Let's say I met a girl on a 15th gave her a flower, I asked out next night, when I pick her up I gave a little present with a rose. And today I gave her a poem....what's ur opinions?
2007-02-11 08:51:59 · 25 answers · asked by djmarce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank You everybody for your answers, and is not like i'm gonna do it everyday...And i'm always who i am, i think girl should be treat it with respect, not like other guys trating her bad.
2007-02-11 09:03:11 · update #1
How Sweet!
Spread it out a little though...She may think you are over the top! Some girls do like bad boys, and sometimes are even used to being treated like crap.
Maybe just remember the important things- Romantically! Anniverseries, b-days, special days for her, things she may be nervous about...
2007-02-11 08:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the girl and how you present yourself. To some, they go all squishy over stuff like that. I can admit I'm one of them. But you have to be careful about how you do it. If you are too forward you risk being creepy. If you aren't too good at it, you risk being corny. Often corny is acceptable, but creepy isn't. Just don't overdo it and you're good.
By the way, I've seen that a lot of younger women aren't as appreciative of romance as older ones. Maybe because romance these days is not "cool". But nevermind that. Go on with your rose-waving ways.
2007-02-11 17:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Fluffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I hate to admit, this is a rather difficult question to answer. It all really depends on the age/maturity level of you both, what exactly the girl is looking for in a guy, how much she likes to be spoiled, etc. I personally, am not too big on romance. Some things are cute like taking her out to eat or maybe surprising her with something cute and sweet every now and then. But definitely not everyday or every other day.
I am more of a person that likes to be happy for what she`s got. I like to appreciate the guy himself, without a bundle of extra things that are almost as if they are trying to substitute for things he might be lacking. Now i`m not saying it isn`t nice to have. It definitely is. It makes me feel appreciated and respected. But definitely not too much.
Eventually though, what you`re doing just might get tiring after awhile for you or begin to smother her and feel like it`s too much.
2007-02-11 16:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Blueyez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl an her past experiences. If she dated mainly assholes who would probably try something like that to get an easy lay an your really a nice guy it could be bad off. But the best thing to do is just be yourself if you really like a girl but your not yourself with her you'll end up driving yourself crazy or it will end up not working in the end because you were not being the person you actually are.
2007-02-11 16:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you are trying too hard. Forget the rose because it is too much to soon. Forget the gift because it looks like you are desperate. Just give your time and attention and make sure you are both good for each other. If you give her goodies right away then you can be expected to be walked all over.
2007-02-11 16:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I certainly do, romance can be in other forms than gift giving, it can be the sweet things said, the look, the little things you do to show her she is special. Whenever you try to make your girl feel like she is the most important person to you...and mean it..........that is definately romantic....and we all want that.
2007-02-11 17:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by dancesintherain45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always been partial to the romantic types...I think that it is nice when a guy is romantic but also be carefull because some girls are superficial so use caution...but to answer your question I don't think that is a problem.
2007-02-11 16:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds good! but you can't go on like this. girls like romance but not too much! if you do these romantic things sometimes(not in each date), it will be more precious.some girls are bored with romance.follow the signals that girl gives. ask if she liked your poem etc not in a direct way.try to see connotational meanings.
good luck
2007-02-11 17:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by pnr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with romance, I think it's great!! The only problem is too much of something is never a good thing. I think you can romance your woman little by little, let her crave your little gifts, not expect them.
2007-02-11 16:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute but tone it down a little bit. girls love romance in moderation but they still like men to be mysterious don't come across the easy or obsessed but i personally love a romantic guy
2007-02-11 16:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋