There's a guy that I've been hanging out with for a little while. Anytime that we are alone we always end up cuddling, etc. He lingers when he has to leave and he flirts with me but he's never actually said that he is interested in me romantically. How do I ask him if he likes me or not? I don't want it to be a big deal. I just want to know if we are friends with benefits or if he likes me but is hesitant to start a relationship.
2007-02-11 08:47:58 · 8 answers · asked by cnm 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Edit: I'm 22
2007-02-11 08:48:20 · update #1
Will the right sign for me is that his lingers he doesn’t want to leave you that’s a good sign,
But if your telling us you guys are friends with benefits NOW, that’s going to be hard one to answer. Why buy the cow if the milk is already free? If you like what you have now then say nothing, but if you like it to move forward then I would ask him what are we doing here and where do you see it going. Tell him you like to see him and no on else. Don’t just keep doing what feels easy to keep a friend, ask question's that what life is all about.
Good Luck and happy hunting
2007-02-11 08:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by choiceav 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best. Just ask him. If he cannot communicate honestly about his real feelings, you don't want to be with him anyway.
2007-02-11 16:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by astralpen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would straight up ask him. It never hurts to ask and if he says no then hey atleast you aren't wasting your time anymore
2007-02-11 16:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by PatricksMom* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come out and ask him how and what he feels about you. Be honest.
2007-02-11 16:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what you are doing and where you are going together.
2007-02-11 16:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him how he feels about you
2007-02-11 16:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, make a physical move.
2007-02-11 16:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it.
2007-02-11 16:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋