a suggestion plz...?

Question

Hi,
I want to break up with my boyfriend who still loves me.
I like him but not more than a simple friend , I don't feel any attraction to him , I feel so dependent to him and that's why I wanna break up. He doesn't know all that becasue I didn't know how to tell him all that.
could anyone suggest for me how to tell him ?

Answer 1

Hello Dejla Tounsi,

I guess, if you're better at writing down your feelings, then it would be better if you sent him a Dear John letter. That's not as good as telling him in person though. He'll take it hard either way if he really loves you.

Make a clean break of it. Don't give him the, "Let's just be friends" BS. You don't want to give him the idea that there might still be a chance that you can get back together. That will give him a nudge towards meeting and dating other girls and forgetting about you. Then you can get on with your life.

--Rick