my ex-b/f ask me out and I have to ask you all a ? should i say yes be cause last time we went out he was not respecting my freinds and he was being a jerk to them.after the brake up he was a S.O.B to me. should I or Should i not say yes please help.P.She told me he was saving his money to get me something big he already has like $113.00.so thank u 4 your help
2007-02-11 08:07:06 · 21 answers · asked by lady_of_chase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are shallow if you'd get with him for the present
Like you say he was being a jerk
Unless he's had a brain transplant then stay away from him.
2007-02-11 08:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly if you love him and feel that he has changed for the better then go ahead for it but make sure your eyes aren't deceiving you! I am assuming you known him like no other person knows him ... so that gives you the benefit of truly knowing if he wants you back for you or because he's afraid of not having someone but then again I don't know much detail about the situation... You should follow your heart but don't be blinded by it ... go with your first instinct! GOOD LUCK
2007-02-11 16:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by oprah08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has not saved enough to change his bad habits. Tell him what you are experiencing. You seem to have a pretty good idea what you don't like about his behavior. Tell him how his behavior makes you feel. He may not like you for it but he will respect you more. He can keep the money. Move on to greener pastures.
2007-02-11 16:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. If he can't be nice to you in relationship or after the break up, he wouldn't be nice to you again. You shouldn't give him anymore chances...If you want to, it's kind of mean though, you can get together with him then get a gift and ditch him. I wouldn't do that if I were you since I don't want to look like a b*tch. But it's your choice...
Take care and good luck! ^.^
2007-02-11 16:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He's a jerk to your friends.
2) He's treating you like a 'ho' by trying to buy you.
3) You already called him your "ex," so what's the question?
Be loyal to your friends, get some self-esteem, and forget about him!
2007-02-11 16:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by MaryAlex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should go out with him. Sure, I mean he was a jerk to your friends, and SOB to you. Why wouldn't you want to go out with this wonderful guy again. I mean you'd get exactly what you got last time so why not?
2007-02-11 16:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by neep71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never EVER go out with a guy if he can get along or be nice to your friends. If he's not respecful to them, the he is a total jerk. Don't start going out with him again.
hope i helped!
2007-02-11 16:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by 2cute_4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. no, i had a girlfriend like that 2 yrs. ago, that did the exact same thing, and she's still obsessed with me, so much so that it's scary
2. don't let yourself be bought by a friggin' $113 present either. thats stupid
2007-02-11 16:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by truthxbeyondxrecognition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get back with him, people like that don't change...he will be nice for a little bit and then end up using you, hurting you, probably would cheat on you and end up leaving you again and then in a few months would want to get back with you-----he is using you and you might even be his rebound girl
2007-02-11 16:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, and 113 is not a savings
2007-02-11 16:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋