i want to make my boyfriend jealous, when he gets jealous, what he'll do will show that he loves me, can i do that?
2007-02-11 08:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by US 3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to play games with him in order for him to show you that he loves you, that's pretty sad. He should show you his love without your having to make him jealous...and if he doesn't, get rid of him and find a real man.
2007-02-11 08:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your philosophy is not a very accurate one...not for most. If you think you have to make him jealous to show he loves you, then something isnt quite right in your relationship..
what he may very well do is just the opposite of what you want, he just may very well walk away thinking b/c of what you have done to make him jealous - you do not care or respect him at all.
2007-02-11 08:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by HopeURLuvinLife2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to base whether or not he loves by how much you can make him jealous! If he loves you then his action toward you would show it! Maybe he does love you but his way of showing it isn't the way you want it to be shown to you. If he's treating you right and you are honestly satisfied with everything now then leave things alone and continue on being happy with him!
2007-02-11 09:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by oprah08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you want a jealous boyfriend.
A boyfriend that doesn't trust anything you say, and suspects that every moment you're not with him that you're screwing another guy?
A boyfriend that calls you 10 times an hour when you're at work or in class "just to say Hi"?
A boyfriend that drives by your place or a club you're at with your friends "just to make sure you're okay"?
A boyfriend who roots through your personal items (purse, cell phone) and asks you all the details about your day "just to get to know you better"?
A boyfriend that claims your girl friends hate him and doesn't want you to spend time with them alone because they are "trying to break us up"?
A boyfriend that claims your guy friends are "giving you looks" and he just "needs to be there to protect you"?
If this is what you're after, then knock yourself out. He will.
And if he doesn't get jealous but instead sees through the mind games you're trying to play, he may decide he doesn't want to be in a relationship characterized with such immature drama and insecure manipulation. I certainly wouldn't.
2007-02-11 08:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! He might not get jealous but dump you. And who said jealous people show love? If he loves you, let him show it - don't make him show it. Humans are complicated species, we can pretend for a long time but when we show our true colors, others get badly hurt. He could see that you want him to be jealous and he would play to your game, but later hurt you so badly you'd think of committing suicide. Let his love flow at its own pace and let your heart accept it as it comes. Good luck!!!
2007-02-11 08:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm and what if he doesnt read you mind and realize you are tyring to make you jealous. What if he sees you with some other dude and instead thinks. "wow I thought she was nice, but it appears she is a *****, I going to break up with her."
Grow up, you cant make a person love you. You cant make a person love you exactly how you want them too.
2007-02-11 08:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What..???.. jealous people are insecure, immature, or possessive to a fault...why would you WANT to be that way, or make someone else be that way?
Inventory your motives...you might get results you aren't prepared to deal with in this circumstance. Thers something being ommised in your rationality.
2007-02-11 08:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by olddogwatchin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you choose to make him jealous, your risking him getting mad at you, but it could make him do whatever he does to show he loves you. it all depends on how he thinks of things. in my opinion, it's best NOT to make him jealous.
2007-02-11 08:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make him jealous!! be the bigger person...jealousy gtes to people and there is no reason for it....love yourself for who u are. good luck!
2007-02-11 08:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone likes feeling appreciated and your significant other being jealous I know can make you feel good but creating jealousy and playing games isn't healthy for a relationship.
2007-02-11 08:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by menagainstamazoniammasterhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋