We went out for 7 months and we loved eachother but that was 2 years ago, now we occasionally hook up but he took my virginity recently. I want to cuddle with him and talk to him the next day but he just wants to hook up. We were going to do it more often but I know I still like him. He brings up the past and how I messed up to break up with him, because I was the first girl he loved. GUILT TRIP? naaahhhh. lol. what do I do?
2007-02-11 07:57:59 · 8 answers · asked by eyeamsparticus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cut him loose.......He is using you for sex.
2007-02-15 01:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT!!.. U are like a mirror to me. I've made myself available to my ex for 7 months now.. only to realise that people can walk all over you only if you let them! Get a grip, you're young and can do much better. Such men like your ex and mine with such cluttered heads have no sense of respect for people who love them. And you've got to love urself and respect urself first before expecting it from anyone else. So get up and get out. Trust me: sex with a lot of love is always better than sex with an ex ;) hehe..
2007-02-11 21:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Brown eyes Ashlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you whant more sex with him just get back together and tell him you know you messed up but you still like him that you really wanna get back unless he stops bringing the past of the bad.
2007-02-11 08:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel he really had feelings for you back then when it all started. but its doubtfull now. he probably wants to show your fault about what you did. he seems to be enjoying the fun to be true n so are you. so no hard feelings or past thoughts. just move on if you get a better guy who'l offer you something better or else jus have fun as long as its FUN.
2007-02-11 08:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by nick j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were u I would get married before u do it. I bet u don't want a baby now? THat will ruin everything. Plus there are so many deciases out there that u can DIE from.
2007-02-11 09:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by CherryCherry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself please darling. You still have feelings for him and you are hoping that giving him your body will get him to feel the same way you do about him. He has shown you want he is interested, banging you.
Why are you giving your body up to him without any type of committment from him? Dont you value yourself more than that? He is using you, but you are permitting him too. You have noone to blame but yourself.
2007-02-11 08:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgement/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.
However all unwed, premarital, extramarital physical sexual relations are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, and births of bastards/ illegitimates, who mostly think/plan/act perversely & contrary to nature, causing all mischief/disorder/disturbance in the world. Such sexual relations put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High % of divorces and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world.
. All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, it is great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.
2007-02-12 04:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy more and more
2007-02-11 09:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋