My dad touches me, is this right? Everyone thinks this is wrong, but i beg to differ.?

Question

My father does things to me, that no one else thinks is normal but is it?

My dad wouldn't lie to me and i mean everyone like my friends but i told them not to tell anyone but i love my dad, surely he wouldn't lie. Plus when he touches me i feel good not bad.

He strokes from my feet upwards when i'm ready for bed he does it and gives me a kiss good night, but the kiss takes aaaagggeees..

Answer 1

Did your dad ever tell you to not tell anyone else he touches you this way? If someone wants you to keep something secret it is probably to protect themselves.You don't say how old you are but I think you should tell your dad that the touching has to stop.You wouldn't even be asking us this question if you felt it was alright. Tell your dad that you will tell your mom.

Answer 2

No it is not normal, and if you enjoy it, then you have a problem, you could end up being in a incestuous relationship, is that what you want?
think about this,, do you think that is normal you father touches like a man?
Do you think that all your friends are wrong?
I suggest you talk to your school counselor or another person, because you are in a very dangerous situation.
For your information, what your dad is doing to you is consider sexual harassment even though he is not forcing you violently into it, he is using persuasion and he is doing it little by little, if you let this thing continue, one day is approaches will be furtherr and furthe in more sensitive areas of your body, and one day he will just rape you, is this what you want?
Think about this, and is a very BIG QUESTION, but you are in danger, so I am just going to ask you this: would like your father to have sex with you? do you want your father to puts his penis inside you? Because this is where this is going if you don't stop him now. Sooner or later your father will rape you, that is the logic consequence to his touching, the pictures in your head very be disgusting, so you STOP HIM NOW!
Your dad is a criminal, you are in the position of preventing yourself from being raped by your father, HELP YOURSELF. And you know there is something wrong or you wouldn't have asked this question.
SAVE YOURSELF.

Answer 3

If you're talking about touching you in a sexual way, then this is very wrong. Nothing normal about it. It's perverted and no matter how many times your dad tells you it's OK, he's a liar. Dad's are there to protect you from stuff like sexual abuse, not be the abuser. You have to get away from him, talk to someone you can trust, or the cops. If this abuse is all you've ever known, then it's not your fault you think it's normal. He's a perverted coward and if you don't report him now, how many more lives is he going to ruin. When you have kids, would you like that to happen to them?EDIT......GARRY....I stand by what I said, your dad is a liar if he tells you it's normal. Your friends have told you, people on here have told you, but your dad has got into your head. You must know that what he does, isn't right, or else why are you asking people on here ? I'd really love to meet your dad, but not to shake his hand

Answer 4

There's good touching and bad touching. Good touching will make you feel good, a hug, a slap on the back or even derriere like the do in sports at times. Bad touching will make you feel bad. If you have to question this you probably need some help. A good father will not touch you in a"bad way." If need be, go to your school counselor or minister or some other trusted adult for advise.

Answer 5

you didn't say how old you are. but i am guessing past little child stage cause you wrote here to ask the question..NO is not normal or right for your father to touch you anywhere.. sure a goodnight or goodbye kiss on the cheek or forehead is fine at any age. where is you mother during all this touching time.. Please tell someone before it gets to far out of hand and the real melestation begins..but make sure you are telling the truth before you open up the can of worms that can distroy lives..be careful and good luck

Answer 6

If your father is molesting you, that is not only illegal, it can lead to lots of mental and emotional distress later on in your life. However 85% of sexually abused children (according to census 2006) felt guilty later in life because it had a pleasurable feeling. Its not surprising that being physically stimulated would feel good, its when culturally and as you mature you realize those feelings shouldn't come from your father. I suggest you talk to your father and preferably a counselor,and stray from internet advice with issues that can become deeply emotionally damaging for you.

Answer 7

You really have asked an ambiguous question without any reference to where you allege your father is touching you. The inference is there and many people will conclude that you are being touched inappropriately, but I am not sure. Not enough information was given.

Answer 8

I do not believe everyone knows your father is touching you. If everyone knew your father was touching you, and thought it wrong, someone would have told the authorities, and you would have already been removed from your home. You need to tell someone so he can get help, and you need help too.

Answer 9

nothing wrong with a dad rubbing his daughters feet. However, it should never go higher then that. And a dad should never kiss his daughter on the lips. That's wrong. Your lips are for you spouse not your children. If you still have questions asked a police office. He will be direct with his answer on the law and what is wrong. Please honey ask....you deserve a great childhood.

Answer 10

um you need therapy. and ur dad needs his a** kicked and thrown in jail. he may have not crossed the line of being a pedophile yet per say, but sounds like he is on his way to it. and ur question did not include details. sounds like he is trying 2 romance and groom you for molestation if he hasnt done that already. what a damn creep! u need 2 talk 2 somebody about that, an adult, POLICE, someone!!!