Ever feel like you cant seem to do anything to get that one person you really like to notice you that way, but you cant seem to keep the ones you dont want away?
2007-02-11 07:54:04 · 3 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well what are you doing in particular thats attracting the wrong ones vs the right one. It may be that thing thats keeping the one you want away. I had an ex who prior to us getting together used to get very dressed up when we as a group went out. I knew her fairly well and we used to flirt but she used to get hit on all the time and stared at all the time, didn't bother me but I knew I didn't want a girlfriend who wanted or craved that kind of attention and her dressing style to me sent the message she did want and crave it. One day she just flat out told me she liked me and got dressed up when we went out so I would notice her, I would've noticed her more if she toned it down and wasn't fending off guys all night. I don't know what it is in your instance that is attracting the guys you are but maybe changing that might catch the interest of the one you do like. Course telling him and being direct might be the faster route
2007-02-11 08:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by menagainstamazoniammasterhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, pretty much. But I've often found that the ones that you don't want sometimes have more to offer than the ones you do want. Sometimes it helps to experiment.
2007-02-11 15:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL... yup, all the time...
2007-02-11 16:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by bom-chika-wah-wah!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋