a guy and a girl have sex for the first time. the girl is a virgin, but the guy is not. the guy knows beforehand that the girl is a virgin, but he doesnt not believe her. the first time they have sex, he doesnt talk much at all, but he's very gentle, and he does a lot to please her and even makes her orgasm before sex. after sex he even lays with her and sleeps over. the second time they have sex however, he constantly asks her if shes alright. he treats the second time like her first time and says "you said you were a virgin right," even though he was not drunk the first time they had sex and he remembers having it. he physically helps her out the second time and tells her to tell him when to stop and when it hurts.
what does this mean?
2007-02-11 07:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by rachel a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes prehaps just trying to be nice he prehaps thinks he wasnt the 1st time alhough he was :) atleast hes being gentle and nice thats good
2007-02-11 07:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if he had asked her the first time is everything ok are you alright she would have been nervouse and not enjoyed it as much and maybe even backed out but if it just happens thats when it is the best of all times and everything happens naturally.. so he knows she enjoyed so now he needs to know exactly what makes her feel good in order to make it better and better alchohol has nothing to do with it drunk or not you remember everything i hope this man was the special one if you know what i mean cause no one can change your first time..
2007-02-11 16:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just thinks it hurts the first few times when you're a virgin. He seems more worried about causing pain the second time.
2007-02-11 15:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two possible theories come to mind, here. First: He considered the first episode something of a light adventure, and is now taking the relationship and sex more seriously.
Second: He's an idiot, but a well-meaning idiot...
I hope it's the first one, so be patient with him.
2007-02-11 15:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously insecure and immature! He is pushing you in a way you are not ready for. And he knows he is doing it!. Tell him to back off. That is disrespect. Not curiosity! He questions your virginity. That would be a red flag along with his drinking. I would not see him again if I were you.
2007-02-11 16:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guys messed up
2007-02-11 15:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like soemone who doesnt pay much attention.
2007-02-11 15:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by shutgstr1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old is she, only underage girls are virgins is she a beast?
2007-02-11 15:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋