When ur boyfriend told u last night " tomorrow we'll go 4 a movie and spend time in the city, ". you get excited. u wake up @ 8am on a sunday and unluckily he says he's not feeling well, he cant make it. Do u believe immediately in him. do u get angry, grumpy? how wud u feel? we'v been 2gether over a year now and i know he's not lying
2007-02-11 07:17:25 · 32 answers · asked by TinaToon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask if he wants you to come over and watch a movie or something. and have some soup. Be sympathetic.
2007-02-11 07:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's not lying then why would you have a reason to get so upset over it? Coming from a guy, it probably doesn't mean much, but I would understand if my girlfriend became sick and she couldn't make it. I can understand perfectly that you would feel a little abandoned or mistreated, but it all wouldn't make any sense to feel that way because he isn't feeling good. However, if I were sick and I said that I would take my girlfriend to a movie the previous day, I would still take her no matter how I felt.
2007-02-11 07:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he ain't lying why are you even asking this question?. If you believe him then just say 'no problem some other time perhaps'.
Get a pizza and a movie stay in, look after him or just give him time to get better and go out another time.
Your reaction should be that of a person who is sad to hear he ain't feeling well if you believe he is telling the truth!
2007-02-11 07:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by 2talkornot2talk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are allowed to feel disappointed that you cant spend the day with him but to to be angry is childish and immature. Go to the city with a friend or alone. If you box yourself into a life where you only exist when you are with your boyfriend you will always be let down. Enjoy him when you are together but when you can't be with him find things that make you happy and do them don't just sit in your room and mope. You will be a happier person this way.
2007-02-11 07:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Petra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's not lying then what's the problem. Sounds like you should make him some chicken noodle soup, buy him a 7 up and go check to see if there's anything you can do to make him feel better. He's probably disappointed too.
2007-02-11 07:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by kmv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is genuinely ill then cut him some slack! I've just split from someone who can't cope with my health problems & know that when you feel ill, all you want is support from the person who is meant to love you. Arrange to go for that movie as soon as he feels better, in the mean time send him a sloppy hope you feel better soon text.
2007-02-11 07:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by ATP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel very disappointed, then go round to his house and make a light easy to eat lunch and arrange the day for another time.
2007-02-11 07:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be disappointed, but seeing that you know he's not lying, maybe you could ask him if he'd like you to come over and keep him company. Don't get your feelings hurt if says no,...some people just don't like to be around anyone if they're sick.
2007-02-11 07:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's really sick, you shouldn't pout and make him feel bad. He very likely feels bad enough, both physically and emotionally, already. Tell him you are disappointed, but you understand, and you'll take a rain check, and that you hope he gets well really soon.
2007-02-11 07:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whats the problem if he isn't feeling well he isn't feeling well pamper him and make him feel better. You can always arrange to do it another day!! It was nice of him to suggest doing that in the first place.
2007-02-11 07:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by kazz06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋