I was bowling last night with my friends, and there was an attractive girl bowling on the lane next to me. It didn't look like she was with anybody. I wanted to talk to her, but I froze up and hesitated and never approached her. I only stared at her when she wasn't looking.
I am getting so pissed because I am so shy that I won't meet anybody new, and I won't talk to girls that I find attractive. That's why I'm single again on valentine's day. Also, this girl happened to be friends with one of my friends, so I had an 'in.' I was too shy to use it.
People keep saying I need to come out of my shell, how do i do it? I want to take advantage of these situations, I'm getting tired of regretting the chances I never took. I'm 27, am I doomed to the single life forever? Should I be a cat guy, and have like 100 cats in my house to compensate for the lack of a woman?
2007-02-11 07:12:48 · 2 answers · asked by Jason 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, buck up little camper. I'm 38 and single, of course that's by choice. if you like someone and you have an in, grow a pair and ask. What's the worst that can happen?
2007-02-11 07:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok at that age I do recommend to take course of how to be out spoken rtc out going it will work and something that can help you be able to get the shy out of your sistem...Shy is not such thing is just that you nerve sistem get you there in control of you so you freeze out...Is all about self control...
2007-02-11 07:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋